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On February 24, 2022 at 02:39 am Lord_Cookie said:

Here's this "drama" from what I was participating in lolz.
I heard of the term lesboy and made a thread just, asking what a lesboy was. The comments and I had agreed for the most part that it didn't seem very valid. Like lesbians who also use he/him in the pronouns? That's fine but "lesbians" who identified fully with being male, didn't. Definition of lesbian is literally nonmen loving nonmen right? So how can a man be lesbian.

After a little bit, some people said we shouldnt discuss someones identity in that way and I kinda realized it might come off as rude, but then brostrider came in and seemed to blow up. They made a comment saying how they were trying to come back to the site in a healthy way and this wasn't helping. They said that lesboy is q***r in nature and they also were getting upset at "how mad people were getting", the only place I could see people getting mad was dislikes, no comments, dislikes. I asked how it was q***r in nature and re***ured them no one was getting mad at them, at least on the thread, they then never seemed to respond and I locked the thread. Never saw 'em again. I made the post before even knowing about the drama and still have like, no details on it. It didn't even really count as drama, someone seemed to just be really upset people didnt think lesboys were real, and then started storming around and making it go haywire on the site. *goop* - Cookie & Slimecicle

On February 24, 2022 at 02:27 am Lord_Cookie said:

@Moon9: //SA mention, P3d0philia mention, 4buse mention
First of all, I'm not trying to start an argument, secondly, I said it comes off as insulting, as a woman myself. Thirdly, sure, saying it on this post isn't the best but it can be so infuriating to constantly see it. Yes, I'm extremely sorry about what's happened to you and hope you're recovering /gen /srs but it hurts men in similar ways and men also struggle getting away with things women can. For example the court cases where women got let off from pedophilia free with no jail time while a man is imprisoned for his entire life (not justifying pedos, the woman should be locked up is what I'm saying).

I understand trauma causes people to see things differently, I truly do, and I'm not trying to downplay that. I'm trying to say, even if it is a safe place, stop villianizing entire groups. The amount of people I've seen go into these "safe spaces" and come out harr***ing men is disgusting and it hurts women as well. Men feel targetted, then women will get targeted even more. Yes, they were always targetted, but generalizing men gives evil men even more of a "reason" (a poor one, but the more reasons they have, the more they'll be sympathised with.) and you hurt men who simply wish to live. (one of our alters lost friends because they identified as a male and they were scared that the alter will hurt, r4pe, abuse etc them). Please, I know it may be hard but stop allowing people to generalize. Men are not oppressed, women are, but they both deserve no generalization. If you understand, I'm trying to be really polite and understand your point of view, I have been hurt by men as well. That does not change my view on them, I have accepted that there are bad men, just as there are bad women. I really hope this doesn't hurt you or anyone in any way, I'm just exhausted. /gen /srs - L'neta <3

On February 24, 2022 at 01:24 am V4MP1RE_ZZ said:

@CoNN13Killz: its rly *****n stupid lmao

On February 24, 2022 at 12:02 am Jase_Burton said:

boosting again cause yall need to see this again /srs /nm

On February 24, 2022 at 12:01 am Jase_Burton said:

agreed, i can't even find hardly any thread related to ACTUAL KANDI anymore. fandoms i don't mind, but the entire site has just at this point become a f//cking diary and it's infuriating. VENT IN A NOTES APP OR TO A FRIEND WITH PERMISSION. STOP VENTING TO STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET WHO CAN EASILY USE IT AGAINST YOU.

i'm also sick and tired of the extremely vague titles, like literally how hard is it to type out a very tiny summary of what you're gonna be talking / asking about? spoiler alert: it's not hard at all.

On February 23, 2022 at 10:56 pm dezdepez said:

ohh god i remember them kek

On February 23, 2022 at 09:54 pm CybrBoy said:

Of course its good to vent, you should go on website/hotlines that are made for venting!/gen Websites such as https://blahtherapy.com/chat-hub/ are way better because people are expecting/wanting to be vented to, unlike people on here who see a thread thats like "help" thinking its for kandi then getting triggerd by somethig that is mentioned! I mean this in the nicest way possible, please vent to people who want to be vented to! ALot of people on here have SOME sort of trauma, and its best for it to not be brought up when they least expect it.

On February 23, 2022 at 09:22 pm kohe said:

sad i cant look at "help pls" without my mind going to sui and abuse instead of help with bead bracelets

On February 23, 2022 at 08:46 pm BuzzyBoy said:

coconut the monkey

he was my fav

On February 23, 2022 at 08:34 pm heckarockstick said:

typing quirks. Even with a translation I still don’t like them.

On February 23, 2022 at 08:25 pm scourge said:

omg yeah i was obsessed with ***htcore my fav song was kids in the dark i'd listen to it for hours on end

On February 23, 2022 at 08:11 pm The_Cowboy_Lad said:

the smacking gum sound.

this girl in my cl*** chews it every single day. Smack, smack, smack. For the love of ******g god, close your mouth.

if anyone does that s**t again i'm going to go absolutely ape s**t.

On February 23, 2022 at 07:49 pm CrabShopping said:

holes/circles

I hate em, they make me feel icky and when i see them, i always image holes in my skin, and it always makes me almost cry or cry.

#circlesareoverparty

On February 23, 2022 at 07:39 pm BuzzyBoy said:

@the_obituaries: bestie i have no idea