i hate kandipatterns threads (rant)

necro 12/4/2021 11:39 am 2129

stop mf venting about the terrible things that have happened to u on here this is a website for kandi discussion /lh

additionally the vents always break the rules LITERALLY STATED WHEN MAKING A THREAD

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Feb 24, 2022 4:44 am

Hi there, as someone who has gone through a lot that I need to vent about, pls don't do it here, this website is about Kandi discussion, and I have no problem with forum posts that go off that topic with fandoms or hauls, anything like that. But when I'm reading a forum post about a pattern and click on another one I don't really think I want to see someone venting /lh

Also, people can use that stuff against you which Is kinda weird nah

Feb 24, 2022 12:01 am

agreed, i can't even find hardly any thread related to ACTUAL KANDI anymore. fandoms i don't mind, but the entire site has just at this point become a f//cking diary and it's infuriating. VENT IN A NOTES APP OR TO A FRIEND WITH PERMISSION. STOP VENTING TO STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET WHO CAN EASILY USE IT AGAINST YOU.

i'm also sick and tired of the extremely vague titles, like literally how hard is it to type out a very tiny summary of what you're gonna be talking / asking about? spoiler alert: it's not hard at all.

Feb 23, 2022 9:54 pm

Of course its good to vent, you should go on website/hotlines that are made for venting!/gen Websites such as https://blahtherapy.com/chat-hub/ are way better because people are expecting/wanting to be vented to, unlike people on here who see a thread thats like "help" thinking its for kandi then getting triggerd by somethig that is mentioned! I mean this in the nicest way possible, please vent to people who want to be vented to! ALot of people on here have SOME sort of trauma, and its best for it to not be brought up when they least expect it.


Feb 23, 2022 9:22 pm

sad i cant look at "help pls" without my mind going to sui and abuse instead of help with bead bracelets

Feb 23, 2022 1:11 pm

sadly still relevant

Dec 5, 2021 10:51 am
Dec 5, 2021 10:38 am

@Moon9: plur yo rock on!

Dec 5, 2021 10:18 am

@annek: yes PLUR

Dec 5, 2021 9:51 am

@kayd3nis0nfir3: Eh fair enough (Also my pronouns are they/she)

-Melly

  • annek
Dec 5, 2021 12:34 am

remember PLUR guys kao happy