something ive been seeing alot on the site [and on internet in general]??

xeviant 1/24/2024 06:50 pm 634

probably going to get bashed for this so bad, but please bear with me <333 i dont mean to be rude, its just an observation and im genuinely curious as to like why ppl do this?


theres just a lot of like.. unnecessary arguing between people who like a certain thing/are a certain way and ppl who disagree. some things i can agree with, like not using trigger/content warnings for every little thing, limiting necroposting, or providing translations when it comes to typing quirks.

but theres just some ppl here [and this is probably the internet in general loll] that just cant seem to let some smaller things slide, such as people liking certain shows, music, etc. and then people who cant stand people from a certain subculture, people with different gender identities or ppl with certain mental ailments.

i dont get whats so hard in just respecting that people are different from you?? as long as its not hurting you and its not hurting others, just because someone is different doesnt mean u should immediately jump and attack them for liking something harmless or shame them for things they cannot change about themselves :C

yeah thanks for reading this lolz not sure how ppl will react to this :')5148b8c88b824_sleeping.gif

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Jan 24, 2024 6:59 pm

could not agree morew18

Jan 24, 2024 7:01 pm

yeah, i've seen so many people talk aout certain things in a negative/disrespectful way lately :c I try to avoid it cus i know i can get really mad in the heat of an argument, but it's still upsetting to see this kinda stuff on a site made for silly bead stuff crying

Jan 24, 2024 7:18 pm

WAIT WHAAT?? i didnt rlly spot people being mad at other people for liking shows and music and stuff like that!! the other things iv seen but not that??

Jan 24, 2024 7:20 pm

agreed.

Jan 24, 2024 7:21 pm

yeah i know what you mean, many peoples first reaction online is just to be angry and say everything thats on their minds. i think its because sometimes people forget usernames have real people behind them. its easier to cuss out randomuser123 than if you where face to face with someone. people also have a tendency to not do there own research on things and just believe the illusion they came to inside there heads from false information.

Jan 24, 2024 7:34 pm

PREACH!! I think we all need to embody PLUR a little bit more. For those who don’t know, that is Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect. It’s a big part of rave culture, which is where kandi was birthed. The world needs more uplifting :^)

Jan 24, 2024 9:24 pm

so real and true!

Jan 25, 2024 4:40 am

PREACH FR FR

Jan 25, 2024 7:09 am

agreed. we need more PLUR!!!!lil rainbow

Jan 25, 2024 7:11 am

@AlexIsCarolinaBlue: literally i hardly come here bc this went from a rave/plur community to 12-14 y/o's ranting abt everything