hi its bugz, i'm coming out

Deleted Account 3/31/2022 06:21 pm 1553

okay, so i know i've been posting threads about this constantly. but i feel like i should probably say it now


after everybody has helped me through everything, i finally feel happy with myself (for now at least XD)

i think


soooo

i'm pretty sure i'm a lesbian and demigirl :3

i was nonbinary, but tbh i've always felt pretty femine. sometimes i felt like a girl, and sometimes i didn't. honestly, i never wanted to be fully a girl. just sometimes i felt like one. ppl helped me find out that i was a demigirl and i just feel much more happy


and lesbian. i was pan but honestly i had a preference over girls. i never really had an attraction to any other gender identity. never found myself attracted to men. just girls. i mean i can't help it women are fine


so yea, hopefully i stay happy with myself

(i still use they/them btw)


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Apr 4, 2022 6:37 pm
@Circuitboardtobrain: 1. dudes kinda have to go by he/him pronouns right?? idk I've never seen it as any other way; sorry if that's rude. i genuinely don't understand how people can be girls and go by he/him

2. and I *dont* like dudes. like that's just a fact. but like im not homophobic? just stating that I don't like other dudes isn't homophobic

3. yeah I think I have been a *bit* ignorant, but I've been listening and trying to understand what everyone is saying

Apr 4, 2022 6:34 pm

@Jase_Burton: ok 1. i don't understand whats wrong w the first thing?

and 2. I'm not mocking systems!! i actually relate to the characters heavily and didn't know a way to express myself as kinning them heavily without calling myself the 'irl' of them. however, I didn't want to be mistaken for a system; that's why I added in that last part

sorry if the thing came across as rude, it wasn't being mean intentionally

Apr 4, 2022 6:32 pm

@bugz_doez_kandi: oh i didnt mean to mock systems- by saying I was the 'irl' of them I meant that I heavily related to them; and I actually do

I wasn't trying to mock the 'da' or 'system' sorry I don't know a lot about DID or whatever

and I'm not homophobic....i mean im not gay or anything but I guess I support people who like dudes (even though I don't really understand it)

and I don't think I've really been saying gross things?

  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 4, 2022 1:33 pm
@gaythoughtsheadfull: thank you!!!
  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 4, 2022 1:33 pm

@gaythoughtsheadfull: thank you!!

Apr 4, 2022 11:26 am

congratsbdaycake

Apr 4, 2022 11:10 am

SLAAAYYYYY we love seeing people find themselves kao blushkao blushkao blush

  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 4, 2022 10:17 am
Apr 4, 2022 8:48 am

@bugz_doez_kandi: Yess of course!! -Opal

Apr 4, 2022 8:26 am

hi hi! that's so great that you feel happy! congrats! kao happy