hi its bugz, i'm coming out

Deleted Account 3/31/2022 06:21 pm 1543

okay, so i know i've been posting threads about this constantly. but i feel like i should probably say it now


after everybody has helped me through everything, i finally feel happy with myself (for now at least XD)

i think


soooo

i'm pretty sure i'm a lesbian and demigirl :3

i was nonbinary, but tbh i've always felt pretty femine. sometimes i felt like a girl, and sometimes i didn't. honestly, i never wanted to be fully a girl. just sometimes i felt like one. ppl helped me find out that i was a demigirl and i just feel much more happy


and lesbian. i was pan but honestly i had a preference over girls. i never really had an attraction to any other gender identity. never found myself attracted to men. just girls. i mean i can't help it women are fine


so yea, hopefully i stay happy with myself

(i still use they/them btw)


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  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 5, 2022 6:54 pm
@cosmiic_exe: thank you so much!!
  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 5, 2022 6:54 pm
@milkiimoony: thank you!!
  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 5, 2022 6:54 pm
Apr 5, 2022 6:53 pm

glad u finally r comfortable! Im rlly happy for you kao happy /pos

Apr 5, 2022 6:25 pm

@bugz_doez_kandi: yeah that def makes sense. thanks for helping! /gen

Apr 5, 2022 5:30 pm

i am extremely happy for you!! i am glad you found yourself<33

  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 5, 2022 9:00 am

@ilurvsouthpark: yeah, but like ppl were saying earlier, pronouns don't define gender. like for example, i'm a demi-girl, but i still use they/them pronouns because i don't like she/her pronouns being used for me. maybe a guy doesn't like people using he/him pronouns and instead they go by they/them pronouns.


hope that makes a little more sense sleeping

Apr 5, 2022 8:14 am

@bugz_doez_kandi: yeah ofc! and like i guess i just dont understand it. like pronouns are a big part of what makes you connected to a specific gender. for example, I don't get how a male could go by she/her and be comfortable with just being a male??? idk man.

  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 5, 2022 8:07 am

@ilurvsouthpark: yea, thank you for being really open minded and not being rude towards anybody, thats really kind happy most people that i know would either start yelling or harassing everybody :c


also quick question, what do you mean you don't believe that the pronouns thingy doesn't exist?? i'm just curious

Apr 5, 2022 6:59 am

@13Killz: THANK U! finally someone shock/j