worst school experience so far?

tabbypawbeans 4/5/2022 09:58 pm 1274

i’m curious to hear what people have to say,, sometimes school can suck, so let it out!! 513b55c6de216_kao_happy.gif

i’ll go first. last year i wore scene fashion to school and was known as a “weird kid”, and i ended up forcing myself to stop in the beginning of the year because of the constant bullying i got from when i did. since i threw out my “scene kid personality” and started to act “basic” again, this caused me to gain more “basic” friends, more attention and i eventually ended up dating a popular guy in my grade who’s also friends with my stepbrother. after a bit of trouble with that relationship, i broke up with him which caused me to get a ton of backlash from some of the worst guys in my school aka my ex’s friends, which was nerve wracking. i also ended up dropping this one really toxic girl who ended up spreading rumors about me, telling people that i said the n word and was making fun of native americans when i am one, which caused me to lose all the friends i had at the time and even more people to hate me. i constantly got harassed in the hallways because of the rumors, i had to disappear from school for a week and police had to get involved because the harassment turned into cyberbullying. it’s been a couple months since the rumors were started and they’ve died down but now i’m unable to avoid constant stares from my ex and his friends and the girls that dropped me, and i’ve went back to scene culture as a way of escapism from everything 5148b8c8996e8_sick.gif

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Apr 6, 2022 7:25 am

this girl kept pushing me into and out of class doors but now she doesnt go to our school anymore

  • bugz_doez_kandi
Apr 6, 2022 7:22 am

(tw: homophobia, bullying, slurs, harassment, cursing, assault i think)


so at my school, i hang out with all of the gay kids basically. and most people know this. i'm pretty open to most people at my school now, however i used to not be. most kids started to find out when i would wear rainbow kandi to school and i guess everybody started to find out.

it started off when i would be walking down the hallway and kids would scream slurs at me. the r slur, f slur, you name it. it got to the point where it was so bad i didn't walk down that hallway anymore. then in art class, kids would constantly shout slurs and me and throw pencils at me. when we would move seats to go do activities, kids would shout "i'm in the lesbians seat!! i'm in the lesbians seat!!" (this was before i came out as lesbian btw)


later on, it got worse. in around february, this one kid i was walking down the hallway with goes, "eww, get me away from that f4ggot. i'm gonna beat the shit out of her."

i was fucking scared, so i just walked faster down the hallway to get away from him. later on in language arts class, when we moved seats later in the month, i have to sit next to him. i ended up moving because i "couldn't see the board" which wasn't true. i just didn't wanna sit next to him.

flash forward to around beginging of march and the harassment gets worse. kids call me slurs as i walk by them. the kids that used to sit next to us at lunch would shout slurs at us and throw food at us (before they got moved) and now kids throw chewed up food, scissors, folders, and other shit at our heads .

(sorry if that was just a really big ramble but yeah)

Apr 6, 2022 6:59 am

tw for general heavy topics surrounding transgenderism since i can't really label it as 'transphobia' per say //

i tried to use the men's bathroom because i was extra male-passing and thought i could get away with it

i just used the stall obviously

i'm walking out and i wash my hands and one of the male teachers came in to get paper towels cus apparently there was a spill somewhere?

he was like "are you supposed to be here?"

and i thought that trans students could use their preferred bathroom as long as their counselor was aware so my first thought was 'oh he thinks i'm skipping'

so i say back "i'm just using the bathroom"

and i walk out when i'm done and i try to go back to my class

but he had called my counselor to talk to me

so, in front of a bunch of cishet boys (a few that bully me), she told me that i need to sign a waiver, since "you're still biologically a woman"

almost cried, embarrassed for the whole day

Apr 6, 2022 6:23 am

@Rand0m_S1mp: oh and also i had to listen to kids misgendering and deadnaming my trans friend

Apr 6, 2022 6:21 am

tw gore animal death

long story short i had to dissect a cat for class over the course of a few months (im vegetarian and HATE seeing dead animals) and the cat they gave me looked EXACTY like my best friends cat who i love and cherish. so every day i had that class id walk in and try not to cry because i didnt want to think about my best friends cat dying and ending up like this

Apr 6, 2022 6:17 am

one of my exs is in my class and he is legit so annoying he actually has something wrong w him

Apr 6, 2022 6:15 am

Tw: Sexualization


this happened Monday but I was heading to 4th period and most people don't really like me since I dress differently (obv) but one of the "homophobic" guys walked up to me and told me to pretend like I was shaking salt in my mouth (if you get what he means) and I just walked away, but it was really bothering me so I told my fourth-period teacher and she said it was because of my outfit and I was asking for it (i was wearing baggy jeans and an oversized t-shirt) and I ended up getting dress coded and the guy never got in trouble :/ (my fourth period teacher doesn't even really like me anyway so I think she did it because of her already despising me)

Apr 6, 2022 5:49 am
@acezrandomnezz: maybe he realized that he was being a jerk cause that’s just so utterly wrong of him
Apr 6, 2022 5:48 am

@Funky_Penilian: people can be so cruel just because of someone’s orientation,,, just know that you’re valid and your school shouldn’t rip you away from your pride!!

Apr 6, 2022 5:46 am

@the_obituaries: i’m sorry that really sucks, maybe report them to school staff because from experience they can actually help you somehow