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I'm a trans man, and though I get dysphoria from being perceived as female, and being feminine in a girl way, I also get dysphoria from my body hair because I'm GNC and in my head, I don't think of myself with torso, chest and back hair. I don't exactly feel nonbinary, but I just kinda have a disconnect from humanity because I have DID and almost all of us are nonhuman alters. While you may present and feel feminine in gender, that doesn't necessarily mean that you won't feel dysphoric for some of your feminine body parts if you're AFAB, or if you're AMAB on estrogen. Gender can be very complex, and sometimes the way we experience it don't always make sense or mesh well together. My partner is an AFAB feminine enby. They're genderfluid, and have troubles with their feminine body characteristics sometimes even if the presentation that they feel most comfortable with is more feminine.

that’s not weird at all! If you need someone to talk to about that then I’m here!!

no not at all! I’m more of a masculine nonbinary but I still feel weird in my body i Also feel weird abt my voice bc it’s really high

nope :]

like im a trans ftm but sometimes i dont really mind my body, its mostly my voice and how people percieve me (also my deadname) that give me dysphoria

it's a weirdly common myth that all nonbinary or otherwise gnc people are nondysphoric- but it's not true at all! I'm a trans man, bigender + genderflux but still a man, and I'm still very femme presenting. I wear dresses, makeup, platform heels, and most of my shorts are shorter than most men's boxers. My favorite colors to wear together are pink, light green, and pastel-listerine blue. But I'm also planning on going on testosterone, looking into top + bottom surgery, and I do have dysphoria, mainly muscle, height, and voice dysphoria. nonbinary, gnc, transmasc, transfemme- it looks different for everyone. gender's just generally weird like that!