Is it ok to identify as both trans and agender?

BunnyBoyDeku 6/5/2022 12:11 pm 696

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I'm still having a little trouble trying to understand my gender... I actually used to be genderfluid, but even then I was really just between male and agender. And now, although I'm trans ftm, I still sometimes feel more genderless. Like, I really wish I was born male, but I still feel agender sometimes. Is this normal?? Can I use both?

I also experimented with other male-alligned genders to go with being trans, and demiboy didn't quite work, so now (thanks to you guys) I'm rosboy. I occasionally act, dress, and feel a bit feminine while still identifying as a boy :/

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Jun 5, 2022 3:11 pm

yeah

Jun 5, 2022 2:16 pm

yesss thats literally me!!!!!!!

its like my gender is just a masculine fuzzy blur

Jun 5, 2022 1:15 pm

@rapunzel: aah tysm!! I think bxy works best, but i have no idea how to pronounce it TwT

Jun 5, 2022 1:12 pm

yeah!! agender is under the trans umbrella so!

Jun 5, 2022 1:06 pm

i feel you, i define my identity as "none gender, left boy"

Jun 5, 2022 1:03 pm

yez!! i identify az a male-alligned agender!! mariocar

Jun 5, 2022 12:55 pm

yes ofc! as branarbi said, trans is an umbrella term! and if you want to try out some other labels, here are some nice ones!
and also: genderfluid isnt just between girl, boy, and non-binary. for example, i'm genderfluid, but i'm never a boy. you can be fluid between boy and agender! i guess genderfluid could also be considered an umbrella term?

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Agender_boy

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Bxy

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Agenderflux

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Demiboy

Jun 5, 2022 12:49 pm

yes!! trans is a umbrella term used to describe anyone who isn't cisgender, and agender is under that umbrella, as agender ppl aren't cis.