heyy haha thing about the whole ¨if they misgender you misgender them back¨ /nm

FRUITYSUNN 2/21/2022 11:45 am 223

soo ive seen ALOT of ppl on this website say like ¨if someone misgenderz you misgender them back¨ and PURPOSEFULLY using the wrong pronounz on someone,,and idk it just doesn't sit right with me. I think it givez off the impression that when people are bad they don't deserve to be referred to by their preferred pronounz, when in any case they should. also I get some ppl are saying this regarding cis ppl but that still doesn't sit right with me bc it givez a sense of superiority kinda? /nm I'm sorry if thiz doesn't make sense I just thought id put this out. plz no mean repliez and if you think im wrong and want to tell me why ill gladly listen!! (same with deadnaming someone, no matter if they're cis or not its basic respect to call someone their name even if they are an asshole)

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Feb 21, 2022 12:57 pm

@FRUITYSUNN: i did it once and it forced someone to stop cause when they asked i told them why "you dont call me right" so they eventually stopped and i stopped calling him by girl terms and it ended fine, we became friends after surprisingly. it just forces them to see it from your view imo but you right, i should prob chill its just so infuriating and when it happens, you dont really think clearly - cosmo

Feb 21, 2022 12:53 pm

@Lord_Cookie: I understand what ur saying!! imo I just think that we should treat everyonez prns with respect bc it also may give off the reversed intent and have someone continue to misgender you to get back. sorry if I repeated myself lol but yeee stuff like thiz iz hard to explainkao sick

Feb 21, 2022 12:39 pm

yeah, misgendering someone just cause they misgendered you doesn’t follow plu

Feb 21, 2022 12:07 pm

i agree

Feb 21, 2022 12:01 pm

idk if this was thought because of our alter cosmo (he said something similar like a couple minutes ago), but uh, pls dont take him seriously (he gets aggressive quick and also, deadnaming and stuff like that triggers him badly) but i think why people feel like it is because of how genuinely destructive it can feel to constantly be invalidated and sometimes it feels like the only proper way of getting that person to learn is to do the same to them, idk /nm *goop* - charlie slimecicle
i say it when cis people are purposefully making fun of you until the point of literal harrassment, then i honestly couldnt care less, if youre getting bullied for being comfortable in your skin, make them uncomfortable, its sickening and i dont get why people are so nice to others who do this type of crap. i only reccomend it when others dont give you basic decency. idk thats just my piece. i know a lotta people probably disagree with this but as i said, my part. - cosmo.

Feb 21, 2022 11:55 am

i agree. it causes unnessary harm