help? TW: gender dysphoria

S1renn_says 1/5/2022 11:06 am 426

ok so, I'm genderfluid, and I usually dress pretty "feminine" a lot, which, not a big deal, but lately I've wanted to present more "masculinely" so I wear wigs to school cuz I don't like my natural hair. and this dude was walking behind me and following me in the hallway saying "that's a girl" the entire time. what do I say in that situation? i usually just say silent but then it gets worse so i need something to make them stop. i don't appreciate being misgendered, especially since I'm not even dressed "femininely" because i know they are just doing it to piss me off 2.gif

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Jan 5, 2022 12:39 pm

i straight up will missgender people back like "wow your loking really feminin today !! Your a girl right?" or get ur frineds to come up to them and be like "this is the girl u were talking abt? (refering to the guy misgendering u)" or sum like that then the people will straight up stare at me in shock LOL Or fr just tell the teacher that they have been harassing you by following you around saying things to you even tho u asked them to stop.

Jan 5, 2022 11:19 am

u should misgender them back lmao fuck then?? I’m a trans masc and I’m pretty feminine in general, some people misgender me and I simply ignore them and if someone follows u around that’s harassment.