Can someone please teach me bro code???? (question mostly for cis guys)

doublezero 5/20/2021 04:33 pm 528

Ok so the title is pretty self explanatory, but basically I'm ftm and want to know if there's anything super important that I need to know. Obviously some stuff doesn't apply to me (anything about a urinal probably won't help), but for the most part I just want to know. Hopefully it'll make me more masc and will let me fit in with the other boys better because I sure as hell don't. (Also if anyone who isn't a cis guy has advice that's fine too I just assume cis guys will know the most.)

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May 21, 2021 12:05 pm

Me trying to act normal around other boys: So...ya like jazz?

May 20, 2021 9:01 pm

@doublezero: ur very welcome!! /gen /pos

May 20, 2021 9:00 pm

@crayoon: Thank you! That helps a lot! /pos

May 20, 2021 8:58 pm

im not a cis boy but i hope i can help a little? most of my friends irl are boys

99% of the time when theyre, like, insulting you its playful. just kinda friendly bickering. unless ur actually being bullied, in that case, tell someone!! though you can usually tell when its light hearted and when its not
acting kinda 'hyper-jock' is pretty extreme and not realistic so i dont recommend that? you can do it if that makes you comfortable though!
dont be afraid to be rowdy, a lot of the guys i know are p loud and just tryna have a good time! (tho if you are more secluded as a person i dont think you have to change yourself to fit in)
also; there's no right way to be a boy, id as a boy is enough

i hope this helps !!


May 20, 2021 6:46 pm

@punkxpixie: Lol. Hope it helps you.

May 20, 2021 6:20 pm

*me looking t this thread for later* o.o

May 20, 2021 5:41 pm

@xX_Archnemesis_Xx: Hmm. Normally Ive seen a dap as the way you described it but like a high five that kind of looks like you're going for a handshake if that makes sense? Idk if that's what you meant but thanks. I try to do it with some people but it always feel weird and awkward.

May 20, 2021 5:11 pm

Not sure if it counts under bro code (I'm not good with bro code sometimes, but i know a minute amount. Also, not a cis boy) but I'd say learn how to dap them up. It's like, a high five, and then you squeeze around the fingers, release and then fist bump, as far as I've seen. Sometimes it's a little different, but generraly it's something to take a shot at

May 20, 2021 4:43 pm

@kand1rocks: Thank you sm!

May 20, 2021 4:42 pm

ayo! im a dude who has mostly guy friends. my #1 tip is to go with the flow. if you are more in the mood for a serious convo but the boys are fucking around, fuck around with them. /pos sunglasses