Halp Please

Grus_Minion 1/4/2024 01:03 pm 394

I'm kinda questioning everything right now. Like I know that I'm something other then what I was "born as" does that make sense idk anymore

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Jan 6, 2024 9:04 pm

@MichaelScott: oh my goodnezz ;3; are you okay?

itz perfectly okay not to know what your gender iz. it took me so long to find a label that really fit becauze I didn't know there waz such thing az being agender (no gender, for anyone who doezn't know). All your feelingz are valid but I promize you aren't hopelezz or a lozt cauze or anything. Theze thingz take time, try to remember to be patient with yourzelf, your gender will hit you in the face one day. Until then you can alwayz rezearch different genderz and gender umbrellaz or you could azk other people about their gender to learn new thingz, etc.

I believe in you! ((PS, if you need to talk about it more in depth and feel comfortable, my DMz are open!!))

Jan 6, 2024 6:39 am

Gender is hard as crap bro. Idek how i found my pronouns/gender sick I'd recommend using an exercise where you write ur self into a sentence w/ diff pronouns each time. i.e he is a fan of Invader Zim

The template I made: (replace pronouns w/ ones u want 2 try)

She is going to bring her favorite fruit punch to the party. Everyone will know It's hers.

but mainly u just have 2 experiment and find which ones are right for you.

hope this helps and lemme know if u need anything cuz im alwayz here beating heartbeating heart/pos raccoon

Jan 6, 2024 2:21 am

https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Special:AllPages

Jan 5, 2024 9:44 pm

@xXWE_ARE_ZIMXx Lost,confused, kinda hopeless. Mix that with a little bit of guilt and all of that is just about the way I feel about my gender.

Jan 5, 2024 9:11 pm

@MichaelScott: well how do you feel?

Jan 5, 2024 8:51 am
Jan 5, 2024 5:26 am

i feel that. it was a shocker when i first realized i was trans- i reccomend looking into the different genders and trying to find something that really feels like youhappy

Jan 4, 2024 8:36 pm

@xXWE_ARE_ZIMXx: yeah gender is the main thing

Jan 4, 2024 6:12 pm

idk

Jan 4, 2024 5:43 pm

I am nonbinary/genderfluid

I dont feel like a woman like my birth gender. I am not a man. I take testosterone to be able to more androgynous and be able to be more masc or fem as i feel.

Its also normal for people to explore gender identities and see what feels right or not. and it can change randomly.