help please (why gender... WHY?)

lyyric_c 5/17/2023 11:37 am 483

soooooo i identify as trans (FTM) non-binary and recently i've been noticing that my gender is VERY fluid...

i just have so many questions

can i identify as trans, genderfluid AND non-binary? am i still valid if i identify as two "genders"? is it disrespectful of me to do that? is it rude of me to "horde" genders? is it possible for me to use "he/they/she" pronouns if i do identify as trans, genderfluid and non-binary? do i have to act a certain way to "pass"? do i have to do things a certain thing to identify as said genders and to be valid?

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not_active_on_here_anymore
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May 18, 2023 11:29 pm

yeah absolutely !!!!!!!

Atm ii’m tranz (ftm) and starfluiid, whiich iiz basiically genderfluiid but iit’z more connected to starz n’ stuff :33

jar_of_pickle
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May 18, 2023 8:51 pm

honestly i would say the "genderfluid" part validates it so yeah go ahead

Mama_WeAllGo2Hell
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May 18, 2023 5:14 pm

@squeee: as an FTM nonbinary (also a couple other genders + a lot of xenos)myself, i can explain

for me personally, I closely identify with masculinity but i also present more androgynously and use a lot of xenogenders, so using the transmasc nonbinary label just makes me more comfy

squeee
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May 18, 2023 4:37 pm

I think it's really important that people can express themselves and their gender the way they want, but I don't understand how you think you're simultaneously FTM and nonbinary? Maybe it's for the best that you disregard the labels and focus on your expression, its scary to assign yourself something cause then you feel like you have to conform to it. Dress however you'd like, and after a while think about what you're comfortable with.

As for acting a certain way to "pass", i don't think you should have to change yourself, but just find yourself and who you really are. If you were FTM, you would want to be totally male, since that's a strictly binary term. It's totally cool to be genderfluid as well, no need to conform to anything. Just go with the flow!

Best of luck man also im here if you ever wanna talk about it i guess lolol

Starry_N1ght_18
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May 18, 2023 4:20 pm

i have a soloution

EVERY ONE PUT THEIR GENDER IN THE BOX

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50_shadez_of_green
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May 18, 2023 4:12 pm

i think i have a few genders left in my closet if you wanna try them on

Phosfate
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May 18, 2023 4:05 pm

@Zuzu: Zuzugender?

lyyric_c
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May 17, 2023 12:50 pm

@xXOurLadyOfSorrowsXx: Thank you!! I will do my research

lyyric_c
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May 17, 2023 12:50 pm

@robbiepie: i get that but i NEED labels to function lol

Bloodborne
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May 17, 2023 12:47 pm

yk from personal experience, youll feel a LOT better if u just...dont use labelsjust identify as..a silly creature. a silly creature dressing as a silly creature that looks like a silly creature

help please (why gender... WHY?)

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