my gender identity- haircut advice?

4r1mak3sk4ndi 4/9/2023 08:30 pm 366

i'm kinda stuck rn. i think im a girl but whenever I see a dude, i get sent to a jealous frenzy. im not an enby but i dont think im cis. i also wanna cut my hair from this long hot mess. i couldnt cut my hair when my parents told me that yahweh would be ashamed but im an atheist. soo ideas or links would help.513b39525823e_crying.gif513b395270f8e_nah.gif513b3952760e7_sad2.gif513b39528014e_shock.gif513b39527b090_scared.gif

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Apr 10, 2023 9:27 am

sometimes putting a label on your gender is super dumb. you can always label as "unlabeled"... yes.. it's a thing lol.

for the hair advice, i'd cut a little bit at a time until you find the "sweet spot" that you're comfortable with. also, hair does NOT have to do anything with your gender identity but if you want, you can use it as a way to express it.

i hope i helped!! lil rainbowkao happy

Apr 10, 2023 1:47 am

maybe get a pixie cut?(if that’s what it’s called)

or, start by cutting it just a little shorter! like, if you have hair that goes down to your shoulders you could cut it to your jaw, maybe?

i don’t have any experience with being/identifying as a girl so i’m not sure if this would help-