Not to make the forum posts to serious but i need help on something

CybrBoy 9/20/2022 05:45 pm 314

(tw gaslighting, hospital, nud3s)

My bfff (weve known eachother forever and r super close) got a bf recently, and im super happy for them. Though recently they have been randomly calling him, reassuring him that hes not a bother, and that my friend doesnt love us more than him??? WHich i know my frined loves their bf more, but his bf constantly is sayign that hes not importint to my bff, and that my bff should stop talking to him and jus talk to us instead? which first of all yeah, my bfff and my other bfff were at my house and we were all having a good time, and when my bfff showed up, he was on czll with his bf, and when he sad bye, his bf was guilt tripping him into calling longer, like "have fun then", in a mad tone and "guess you dont need me" when they are on call 99% of the time. I just want to hang out with my friends and his bf is mad??? and when i went over to my frineds house, he was on call with hig bf the WHOLE time. im not joking. We hadent seen eachother in forever and i was so annoyed bc i was just playing with his lil sis the whole time. Im not jelous that they are together (i dont have a crush on him) i just am annoyed that his bf gets mad whenever they arent on call? and his bf got him to get a 500 dollar plane ticket to go see him in like ohio or wherever he lives. n before that my bff wanted to just drive to his house w me, and leave me at a close frineds house who ironiccly lives really close to my bffs bf, that was the frist day they started dating. They had known eachother for maybe a few days and like bro...? AND my bffs bf fr makes my bff send nud35 and says that he doesnt love him unless he does?? which is weird bc my bff is trans and he wants pics of his tatas??? idk man its just in general a weird situation, i dont want to say anything to him bc i feel like it will ruin our realtionship and hes like the only close friend i have..... any advice or like, ideas on what to do???

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Sep 20, 2022 6:30 pm

sounds toxic tbh and like Caitlynn said, last part is a HUGE red flag, oh my gosh if I was your friend I would break off as soon as I could, make sure they have screenshots of messages and make sure they make their bf deletes their n#des ESPECIALLY before they break up, by the sound of how manipulative he is it’s definitely possible he’d use them for blackmail

Sep 20, 2022 5:51 pm

@Caitlynn: yeah, i just dont know what to say to them bc i dont want them to think i hate the or anything, i just dont want them to be sad all the time bc there bf is mad at them crying

Sep 20, 2022 5:49 pm

Woah that last part is a major red flag