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question for trans masc ppl (mostly trans masc men but idk)

CybrBoy 9/7/2022 06:38 pm 395

DOes any other trans masc hate gender neutral terms? for me its like the person doesnt know what to say bc im trans. Especially if they were frineds w me before my transition and they are having a hard time adjusting, i would rather someone call me a slur and spit on me/hj/j

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di0shi
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Sep 8, 2022 5:37 am

Depends on how I'm feeling on the given day, but I generally prefer masculine terms over gender-neutral ones. I think it's important to understand that people might have a hard time adjusting, and if they're supportive otherwise, they're probably just doing their best.

DISCOGRAPHY
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Sep 8, 2022 5:23 am

YES HOLY SHIT,, my mom always uses gender neutral terms to refer to me, and it is , so uncomfortable it's insane, it always feels like an intentional thing.

RaverKandi_PizzaPup
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Sep 8, 2022 4:52 am

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FL1NT_1Z_D34D
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Sep 8, 2022 4:34 am

yes i H8 it!!! i understand if they don't know me or are adjusting or just meeting me or something but if they've known me for a while they should know i dont like they/them pronounz and they make me dysphoric!!

SleepinqZzz
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Sep 7, 2022 9:28 pm

it depends on the day honestly. but he/him is always alright

bones_does_kandi
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Sep 7, 2022 9:23 pm

A lot of people I know were friends with me before I discovered I was trans and during that time I kinda shut out a lot of those people and I understand the kind of mental pain when someone uses the wrong terms. Most of them use more fem terms then correct to gender neutral, like I appreciate the effort to get it right but it hurts yk.

CybrBoy
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Sep 7, 2022 7:44 pm

@Quartz: Thats exactly what i mean like them trying to be "inculsive" just turns out being weird and uncomfy

Quartz
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Sep 7, 2022 7:01 pm

I appreciate the fact that people try to be considerate and inclusive, but I definitely only use traditionally male terms and dislike when people make a point to be overly neutral.

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question for trans masc ppl (mostly trans masc men but idk)

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