trans struggles

natluvscats688 4/8/2022 05:42 am 672

let me start with the fact that we have a substitute teacher and im scared shes about to say my deadname taking attendance-

woo omfg i got so scared she said nick thank god

anyway, if ur trans, share ur struggles here

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compost_in_training
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Apr 8, 2022 12:41 pm

-wanting to wear makeup but not being able to wear anything but eyeliner cuz everything else gives me dysphoria

-wanting to wear shorts and thigh highs but getting really dysphoric and then someone calls you a girl and you just die mentally

-when your chest was arranged to look way flatter in the binder but over the day it shifts and you look down and you dont look as flat as this morning and aaaaaa

-that one sub at school who when you tell them your preferred name they look you dead in the eyes and say 'don't try to confuse me, [deadname]' >:v

-barely being able to clean yourself cuz ewwww body i dont want

-physically incapable of wearing any sort of bra even if its a tight sports bra cuz i h a t e m y s e l f

*screaming*

vanth222
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Apr 8, 2022 12:33 pm

idk if everyone can relate to this but like i think i am so pretty when i like dress feminine and do my makeup and wear a skirt but omg the dysphoria... but like when i dress masc it's like wow i got called sir!!! but im so ugly omg wtf. like idk i dont know how to pull off being masculine and looking good at the same time x__x

also the kid in front of me is watching some weird dance video and everyone is like huddling around his desk.

K4V1TY_
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Apr 8, 2022 12:33 pm

Boob /j

My disphoria is so funky bcuz I hate not having a flat chest but binders/sports bras only make my disphoria worse ??? Like it makes my mind more aware of it and I get so uncomfy which means I probably won't be able to find a way to bind that helps at all I also misgender myself a lot and thats frustrating /gen. I don't have a prefered name either so I cringe whenever someone says my name but I haven't given them an alternative bcuz I don't have one other than online usernames that don't work irl.

urfatherslovrr
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Apr 8, 2022 12:21 pm

@urloverboy: EXACTLY OR IF THEIR LIKE "but you're wearing a bra, you're probably faking it" MF???

natluvscats688
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Apr 8, 2022 7:38 am

@urfatherslovrr: OR WHEN STUPID PEOPLE ASK IF IVE HAD SURGERY YET

like bro i wish but im 14 wth what doctor is gonna perform gender reassignment surgery on a 14 yr old. like i wish but i understand why not

natluvscats688
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Apr 8, 2022 7:37 am

@SleepinqZzz: happens all the time but im a guy

like ill be like ok presenting fem for a day and wearing a skirt or smth but then someone misgenders me and i have a whole mental breakdown about how i look fem and i shouldnt if i want to be taken seriously, etc