Pls help- (Not kandi related, just advice in general) (Somewhat serious??)

xXJustJoking8P 4/7/2022 02:16 pm 1110

Ok woo I saw someone ask for like life advice here before and normally I wouldn't do that on kANDIPATTERNS.COM but my issue is pretty venial imo so I think it's cool if I do? Lol?
Bro, how do you stop worrying about what people think of you?? It's literally been ruining everything for me like I'm so tired about worrying if this opinion is going to make people h8 me cuz it's a "Hot take" or "Problematic" like I'm always compromising my opinions just so some people who probably spend 99% of their time on Twitter don't h8 me and I'm so tired of it like I just want to stop caring and just live but I'm always compromising my opinions and sugarcoating them just so ppl like me and it's literally so mentally taxing like fr- But this is getting vent-y- Just, how do you stop caring?? It's literally been ruining my life trying to fit everyone's "I wouldn't cancel you" mold-

Just to make this less me centric uh- What's your favorite ice cream flavor too?-

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xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 4:53 pm

@Z0mbie_gh0st: Fr, it's so... Loud-

Z0mbie_gh0st
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Apr 7, 2022 4:47 pm

@xXJustJoking8P: Twitter scares the sh1t outta me lmao

xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 4:01 pm

@gummilud: I'm not asking for people to just stop caring about my opinions tho, I'm asking how do I stop caring that they care, y'know?- .-.

gummilud
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Apr 7, 2022 3:32 pm

cope? its the internet, nothing is sacred and people respecting you is a privilege, not a right.

if you have a problematic opinion, people will be pissed. either dont say it or dont complain when people get upset

xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 3:16 pm

@junatehrobot: Omg I literally misread your bolded text, it's literally in bold, how'd I-

I don't really talk about my religious opinions though, like, I mention it sometimes and a lot of my opinions can be traced back to religion but normally my mentions of religion go up to "Well, my religion says to forgive everyone so I like to forgive everyone", idk if that's upsetting

xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 3:13 pm

@Z0mbie_gh0st: Same, I used to have a Twitter but it was literally so horrible to keep x_x

xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 3:11 pm

@Z0mbie_gh0st: Oh really? Well I'm rlly sorry you've been going through that too! Maybe we can both learn something from the replies ;v;

xXJustJoking8P
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Apr 7, 2022 3:11 pm

@junatehrobot: Ya, sorry, I thought just mentioning it wouldn't be too bad but I guess me mentioning it whilst kinda venting is kind of upsetting

Ya, I try not to be harsh and I hate it when I am- I mean, all of the hot takes I've said here aren't really like- All of my opinions, y'know? Like, there's some I just don't talk about here (Some I don't even tell... Anyone-) cause I know people would ACTUALLY hate me (See my reply to Vampire Vomit) and it's been really mentally taxxing x_x I dunno I can't really go into detail-detail just flat out in a thread comment section but- Y'know-

(I've never had it before, sounds fancy doe :0 My favs vanilla with sprinkles! Basic I know X'DD)

Z0mbie_gh0st
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Apr 7, 2022 3:06 pm

@vamp1re_v0m1t: yeah I've gotten off of alot mainstream sites I still have twitch discord, reddit,Pinterest, tumbler and YouTube (ofc) but I've turned off notifications so I don't feel pressured to check every notification and that's helped me out alot,most of those I just use to promote my etsy shop

Z0mbie_gh0st
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Apr 7, 2022 3:03 pm

littlerally same I feel the same way tbh idek what advice to give bc Ik myself lol

Pls help- (Not kandi related, just advice in general) (Somewhat serious??)

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