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i feel inadequate, any advice?

ZaphOd_Beeblebrox 4/7/2022 12:36 pm 309

i keep on comparing myself to other people, mostly my sis. I love her, dont get me wrong, it just pisses me off that shes way better than me. fashion wise, music wise, shes really good at writing, shes really good at language learning, and she get along with basically everyone. this might be a bit too much for Kandi patterns but i really don't know where to go.

any advice?

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Agarest
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Apr 7, 2022 3:05 pm

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. Other people tend to see the strength more and we are our biggest bully. Just know that you are worthwhile and try to focus on anything that you do like about yourself instead of focusing on the things you don’t :

cosmiic
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Apr 7, 2022 1:26 pm

don't hurt yourself thinking about it, in your eyes she may be better than you but im sure youre an amazing person :]

i'd advise to try not to think to hard about it, what needs to happen will eventually happen. like i said im sure you just need to step back and that you're probably an amazingly cool person

Mush_bRainz
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Apr 7, 2022 1:25 pm

I can't give you a one step cure all that works in five minutes but I can give you some advice I wish someone had given me

you have to understand that through your own eyes you look only at what you hate about yourself or the things you create because you saw all the other parts while you were making it and now you've stopped looking. Other people who look at you or your works see the whole picture, all the amazing things that you stopped looking at. Your eye is subjective.

you also have to remind yourself that even if you can't write as well as her you have other strengths

thirdly peoples opinions are fucking useless, the only thing that matters is that you enjoy what you create

sorry if none of this was helpful

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i feel inadequate, any advice?

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