Do people ever get to you?

Deleted Account 3/23/2013 08:27 pm 1535

Do people ever get to you???? When they call you "Scene/Emo/Goth/...." Does it ever get annoying???

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Mar 27, 2013 3:44 pm
It gets annoying sure. But words are words, an after a while you just get used to them. I've been called emo, scene, goth, weirdo, freak. etc so many times. It's just funny to sit back and laugh sometimes.
  • ixlikextrainsxkid
Mar 25, 2013 6:48 pm
oh, and the lines between stereotypes are so blurred these days that people honestly have NO clue what is what anymore. like from what i have seen, the ppl who are stereotyped as the things you listed above are often not what they are classified as. the lines between groups is waaaayyy too blurry to tell anymore
  • ixlikextrainsxkid
Mar 25, 2013 6:45 pm
i dont know how this happened but apparently wearing bright colors and frowning every now and then when I'm upset classifies me as emo....the point is that sometimes ppl have no idea what they are saying, so just dont listen to it. easier said than done ik...but thats the best advice i got. It's what has helped me survive this far after all...
Mar 24, 2013 11:56 pm
I had some little brat scene kids my sophmore year try and call me a poser. Taught them real quick who the real posers were and who was tougher. Kicked 3 girls asses and while they were crying on the phone to their mommies i was on the phone with mine planning a shopping trip after she picked me up for my suspension. Now I wont say violence is the answer, but its a hell of a lot funner and gets the point accross right quick.
Mar 24, 2013 7:09 pm
If you are doing what you want to do, (dressing a certain way, acting a certain way,) and you feel its expressing yourself, Then more power to you! you do you. and people who are bullies or have a problem with you, are just dealing with their own shit, they are just putting their problems on you. and you dont need to take it cus its not your problem Heart Just believe in yourself. you got it happy
Mar 24, 2013 1:31 pm

Well, I honestly don't care what people think of how I dress because I know I dress better than most people (In my opinion). I am not showing anything that should be concealed, my clothes are not too loose or tight to look unflattering, I know when I go out, I am properly and tastefully dressed and that's what I tell those who say otherwise. My style changes everyday because I'll dress how I feel like dressing. Others have told me that dressing from one style to the next makes me a poser for some reason. I just like to keep my options open and I don't  try to fit the social stereotype for that said style. I like it and I'll wear it or mix it with whatever I want. Moral of the story, don't let the bullies control you in any way. If you like how you dress, continue on with pride. The mind set may sound a little arrogant but sometimes a little boost is what you need. happy I understand the feeling though since I had problems like this when I was in middle school. Be strong and wear what you want.

  • Purpl3Sag3
Mar 24, 2013 10:45 am
Actually I just don't gaf. I love who I am and what I look like, and above all my kandi. People have called me scene and goth, but I ALWAYS correct them. "Excuse me. I am a Kandi Kid. Thanks." That's all that is needed to be said. I'm pretty argumentitve and actually people are scared of me when they first meet me. Words from other people have neevr pushed me to harm myself because after all, they are just words. I'm extremely confrontational, so if anyone tried to say something that would push me, I would probably come back 10x as hard, if not, just walk away. I live by PLUR, but if you don't treat me the same, then you're in for it. I've never been called a poser, however, because no one around me wears kandi like I do. Or as much as I do. Don't let anyone bother you. I promise, life is SOOOOOOOO much better when everyone else's opinion doesn't matter.
Mar 24, 2013 9:01 am
I personally have no problem admitting it has, I know where your coming from, next time they try to bull shlit you just look them in the eye and smile and say thanks. Giving them this reaction rather than the one they want will more than likely make them leave you alone. C: hope it helps