gender help lol (not negative)

CybrBoy 3/1/2022 09:41 pm 558

so i currently identify as demi boy and use he/they pronouns, but recently ive been feeling feminin and thought i might be gender fluid, bu i dont really identify with she/her pronouns. I identify with being female but like im every gender ever mixed together into 1. Im ver confused lol cus gender fluid is like sometimes your this, sometimes your that. But i feel like im always evry gender ever existed??? I LOVE being feminen but also i love being a man, though i couldnt really picture myself as a "passing" cis male, yk? if this is like an actual gender pls tell me bc im having a crisis

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Mar 2, 2022 6:30 pm

@gasky: i actually never knew that !! tysm for this : 0 !!! /gen /pos !!

  • CoNN13Killz
Mar 2, 2022 5:44 pm

@bl00dy_b4nd41dzz: i honestly dont know how yall just contemplate this shit like i dont feel confident in any gender but i dunno does this gender shit consume yalls thoughts or something idk (no offence i just like 2 understand others

Mar 2, 2022 5:40 pm

that kinda sounds like pangender maybe

Mar 2, 2022 12:10 pm

you might be pangender! since you said you feel like every gender- you don't HAVE to use she/her to be pangender either! rainbowsmile

Mar 2, 2022 8:24 am

you can be genderfluid and not use she/her!!

Mar 2, 2022 8:02 am

genderfaunet might be what your feeling rn w/your gender. its basically like genderfaun(genderfluid without the feminine part) but on occasion you'll feel somewhat like a girl but not fully

if this sounds too complex then heres the wiki lmao: https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Genderfaunet (safe)

this is just how i explain it since im genderfaunet myself but yeah hope you find a label your comfortable with!kao happy


Mar 2, 2022 7:22 am

listing all the possibilities

-abinary

-androgyne

-demistransgender

-libragender

-omnigender

yea thats all i can think of -Blitzo

Mar 2, 2022 7:08 am

i think genderfluid may be a good way to describe it, but you don't have to! you can also use whatever pronouns you think fit you, so even if you feel female, that doesn't mean you have to use she/her prns happy you can use whatever label or prns feel comfortable for you, and i do think that genderfluid sounds like a good label to describe how u feel

Mar 2, 2022 6:56 am

@Jase_Burton: @Lord_Cookie: "pangender" is something to be very careful with. some genders like two-spirit for example are specific only to certain cultures and someone saying theyre pangender (thus EVERY gender) is basically saying theyre claiming to be every culture specific gender possible. which i dont think i have to explain how that is not good. people can use trigender or polygender or multigender or whatever other term they want but no one should be claiming genders from outside their culture for obvious reasons. everyone needs to remember that "nonbinary" is an umbrella for countless genders and isnt a "third" gender (people using nonbinary as a gender name for themself is fine, but not all nonbinary people share the same gender, thus someone whos male and female and nonbinary cannot be pangender/all genders)

Mar 2, 2022 2:55 am

gender ≠ pronouns. u dont have to use she/her 2 b genderfluid rainbowsmile

-flint