help me - gender crisis

_n0t_sur3_ 5/30/2021 04:07 pm 875

Man oh man oh man oh man

So i was born a female
Im a cis female - or am i?

I have considered being trans, but i dont think i am because i dont have dysphoria 25/8 like trans people do. Only in some cases (for ex, wearing a dress)

I DO like being a female, only about 30-40% of the time
i feel more like a man
but i also feel like a female

im not nb because i dont like they/them pronouns. Im fine with them if people dont know my pronouns, but i dont want to be called a they all the time

that also rules out gender fluid

I dont even know what i am anymore, someone help me

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May 30, 2021 4:43 pm

@doublezero: oh, i didnt know you didnt need to have a lot or any dysphoria at all to be trans. The more you know. And i was thinking i was bi gender, and thats quite possibly it, but i dont know. Thank you for helping.

May 30, 2021 4:11 pm

You don't have to use they/them to be enby! A lot of enbies do, but it's not required. Pronouns =/= gender. It's why you can use neopronouns and as many sets of pronouns as you like no matter your gender! You could also be bigender, in which you are male and female at the same time. Just try not to stress to much. You'll figure it out eventually! Also you don't have to have a lot or any dysphoria to be trans if it makes you more comfortable! Just know it will come to you. <3