Can someone explain Neo pronouns to me?

TapDancingCats 4/11/2024 12:10 pm 599

I dont really know how neo pronouns work and things like cat\catself or xe\xir ect.., and I dont wanna accidentally invalidate someone for it, so can someone tell me like what they are, and like how they work? 513b39525823e_crying.gif

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Apr 11, 2024 12:19 pm

For example instead of saying “She went to the store by Herself” you would say “Cat went to the store by Catself” (or whatever the person goes by)

They have a different significance to people depending on their identity/ situation. I can try and find you some articles about them if you'd like :3

Apr 11, 2024 12:21 pm

Neo pronouns are pronouns that people use when she, he, they, etc doesn't identify with them personally. Not too many people use them, but when people do it's good to use them correctly. Cat/catself is usually just used as "Cat is playing by catself, could I go play with cat?". Xe/xir being used the same way "Xe is playing by xir, could I go play with xe?"

Hope this helped, if I got anything wrong in this comment let me know! raining cloud

Apr 11, 2024 12:22 pm

@P1nk_Mal1bu_Barb13: Ohhhh okay! yeah the articles would probably help a lot, thank you<33

Apr 11, 2024 12:23 pm
@Sparkly_cheeseburgers86: OHHHHH okay yeah this makes more sense, I was so confused on how to use them for so long kao cry
Apr 11, 2024 1:33 pm

OMG I"M SO GLAD PPL ARE ASKING THIS AS A NEOPRONOUN USER happy


I use star/stars neopronouns and I made a guide on how to use that I'm going to copy and paste here that might help you use other neos as well ! Just note that some neo pronouns will be used differently than others ! For example, fae/faer and ey/em pronouns are used the same way as they/them pronouns; in other words, they are plural pronouns. So, you would "ey are" instead of "ey IS". In the case of my pronouns (star/stars), they are singular, so you would use them the same way you would she or he and most other neopronouns . I will also provide a few websites that can help you use them if you ever need ^^


Starself pronouns–

*Star/stars pronouns are singular, which means that they will be used in the same way as she or he pronouns !

I met someone named Rory, she is very nice– I met someone named Rory, star **is** nice.

Her favorite color is pink– Stars (or star’s) favorite color is pink.

She has a pink shirt, the pink shirt is hers– Star has a pink shirt, the pink shirt is stars.

She bought it herself– Star bought it starself

I’m going to the mall with her after school– I’m going to the mall with star after school


Websites:

-Pronoun dressing room

-Practice with pronouns

-Pronouns wiki


Hope this helps !!!rainbowsmile

Apr 11, 2024 1:34 pm

@TapDancingCats: https://neopronounss.carrd.co/#

Ik i said articles, but i think this sums stuff up pretty well:3

Apr 11, 2024 1:36 pm

also, I think most neo users would be happy to help you use their pronouns if you ever ask !

Apr 11, 2024 2:32 pm

same but i dont know how people identify with these, thats what my confusion is. like how do u identify as glitter/glitterself??

Apr 11, 2024 2:54 pm

@rainbow_nerdz: (mine and my friend's perspective)

We are all neurodivergent and have a difficult time really understanding what gender/identity is. We've built our identity on things/experiences that are important to us, so our names and pronouns express that

But at the end of the day, pronouns and names are made up anyways lol. It doesn't really matter what people go by, as long as they are comfortable with it

Apr 11, 2024 3:23 pm

@P1nk_Mal1bu_Barb13: Yea idk why people always argue "you can't use neopronouns cus they're made up" as if THE ENTIRETY OF THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE ISN'T MADE UP AS WELL ?!?!? shrug