Everyone needs to read this /srs

RaverKandi_PizzaPup 10/3/2023 04:21 am 687

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I don't care if I'm being harsh. This is the truth.

This website is about kandi. The one thing that EVERY kandi wearer should abide by is PLUR—peace, love, unity, and respect. I barely see any of that on here. This is not a site for he said she said drama, this is not a place to vent (unless someone says that you may dm them venting), this is not a place for pointless drama. This is a community that is becoming more and more toxic with each passing day.

I miss the days when the forums were full of kandi ideas and lighthearted goofy topics that everyone can smile or laugh about.

Now this site is just stressful.

Not that off topic threads are bad, they're actually a fun way to connect in the community, but venting in the forums or just he said she said bull is not okay and i'm willing to bet that @Crumpet and the other mods are over it too.

Edit: look I know stuff happens and I get it, but please keep it under control. The whole of this website doesn't need to be subjected to personal drama unless it could affect the rest of the site. I just want to make kandi and make silly goofy friends ;-;

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johnpork
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Oct 3, 2023 4:52 am

Agreed!

InkclawXwX
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Oct 3, 2023 4:55 am

I do agree for the most part

However, it is a bit unrealistic to expect everyone to get along and not all the time is everything is gonna be peaches and cream.
Drama and venting happens, its a part of life, especially on the internet. This website is not immune to such thing. As long as things stay respectful in forums and the subject doesnt go against the rules, there is nothing that can be done to actually stop it

We're all people, people sometimes start shit sometimes, especially teenagers...I should know XD

RaverKandi_PizzaPup
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Oct 3, 2023 4:58 am

@InkclawXwX: No I completely understand and I know that drama happens, but people need to keep it in the dm's. Trust me I'm no saint and I've been at fault for this too but when it comes down to it this is supposed to be a positive space. not to mention I've seen MULTIPLE threads that explicitly break the rules (I'm unsure if they were dealt with)

and even though it was not too terribly recently, other than the donnie and craig drama, I have seen serious disrespect in the forums

InkclawXwX
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Oct 3, 2023 5:34 am

@PupStar_Golden: you and I both know people cant keep it in DMs :v

RaverKandi_PizzaPup
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Oct 3, 2023 5:35 am

@InkclawXwX: yeah i know it just sucks that this site is being used more as social media than an actual kandi site, yk?

RaverKandi_PizzaPup
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Oct 3, 2023 5:37 am

@InkclawXwX: I also just wish a lot more people could have more respectful conversations on here. Like, we differ a little, but we're not being rude or anything. We're simply having a respectful conversation. I'm in taking everything you're saying and I imagine you're probably doing the same

lehnercore
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Oct 3, 2023 5:39 am

real 100%

KONNYDRAKI
Member

Oct 3, 2023 7:17 am

LITERALLY !!literally !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!like how the hell do you start drama and get banned on a fucking kandi site?? just DONT????? its not that hard to not fight people and start things and like you said..how are you gonna be on a kandi site with rave links and shit and not foollow plur its not even like some crazy thing its just peace love and unity is that so hard

KONNYDRAKI
Member

Oct 3, 2023 7:18 am

like i dont expect everyone to get along ofc but ill judge you if you cant manage that if you cant keep yourself from arguing for two seconds to make a kandi brcalet or somthing you have it coming

Trever_The_OutcastX3
Member

Oct 3, 2023 8:27 am

I agree.

edit cuz I was in a rush when reading this:

Ofc, I dont expect everyone to get along, or to be happy-go-lucky all the time, I mean, have you met me? /hj maybe just treat others w/ respect, or maybe treat each other how you want t be treated Xp..

But- I've seen a lot more threads about venting and drama. It thought this website was supposed to be for kandi, and, even in the rules, its says there's no venting allowed on the threads. Ofc, its OK to vent. Just- not in the threads. honestly, when I heard about some people getting banned on this website I laughed. i mean, how do get blocked in THIS website??

I'm no saint either, I did contribute to "say something you would say to your ex" thread. so, I also apologize for that.

But yeah. I agree I miss the funny topics or ways to connect w/ each other, instead of KOSA, or a vent, or a drama. /gen

Everyone needs to read this /srs

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