Everyone needs to read this /srs

RaverKandi_PizzaPup 10/3/2023 04:21 am 664

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I don't care if I'm being harsh. This is the truth.

This website is about kandi. The one thing that EVERY kandi wearer should abide by is PLUR—peace, love, unity, and respect. I barely see any of that on here. This is not a site for he said she said drama, this is not a place to vent (unless someone says that you may dm them venting), this is not a place for pointless drama. This is a community that is becoming more and more toxic with each passing day.

I miss the days when the forums were full of kandi ideas and lighthearted goofy topics that everyone can smile or laugh about.

Now this site is just stressful.

Not that off topic threads are bad, they're actually a fun way to connect in the community, but venting in the forums or just he said she said bull is not okay and i'm willing to bet that @Crumpet and the other mods are over it too.

Edit: look I know stuff happens and I get it, but please keep it under control. The whole of this website doesn't need to be subjected to personal drama unless it could affect the rest of the site. I just want to make kandi and make silly goofy friends ;-;

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Oct 3, 2023 3:40 pm

@PupStar_Golden: I agree with this, we've been on this site for a while, and I don't remember it being this bad ever.

I really wish all this would calm down (/nm at anyone invovled) -Karl

Oct 3, 2023 3:33 pm

@PupStar_Golden: ohhh alr i thought you were talking about things that just arent related to kandi in general /gen

Oct 3, 2023 3:16 pm

@starZ: That's not what i'm talking about. I'm talking abt personal drama and sh vents n stuff /lh /nm

Oct 3, 2023 3:13 pm

I've been into Kandi and raving for a few years but never really felt the need to make an account here, but decided it would be fun to a few months back. It's been an overall positive experience but some weeks seem like y'all tryna herd cats wacko

Oct 3, 2023 2:45 pm

just saying, i know this isnt targeted or whatever, BUT i put KOSA and harmful bills like that on here in forums because i know some people on here have 0 access to things that could give them that information. /nm

Oct 3, 2023 12:06 pm

peace love unity and respect thumbsup

Oct 3, 2023 11:39 am

boosting rainbowsmile

Oct 3, 2023 11:02 am

It makes me sad that new kandi kids know nothing about PLURcryingcrying

Oct 3, 2023 9:57 am

@Ashtchi: Well like i said, the wholesome threads (like gender talk for example) can sometimes strengthen the community. It's just annoying that the site is overrun w/ accusing and venting

Oct 3, 2023 9:56 am

i absolutely agree! wheres the positive vibes ppl?? kao sick we should be partying and having fun making art! not fighting and crying and being upset! lets just have fun!!!!!!!! kao madheart bounce