Dumm-Dumm Rant on Some Threads/Ppl Here

xXJustJoking8P 2/23/2022 10:05 am 778

OK this has been said a MILLION times but I want to really break down my opinion on this cause grr angy-

I do not agree that only kandi has to be talked on this site. There's an "Other discussions" category for a reason. Yes, it uses rave culture as an example but I don't see posts not about rave/kandi stuff being actively taken down so I'm assuming the site creator dosen't mind/care. BUT here's the thing. When you post on this site, it says "Post a thread"

Not a blog post
Not a vent
Not a trauma dump
A thread.

Threads are for active discussion. So like, I agree completely off-topic posts are fine BUT when I say, that I mean ones like "Any Skrillex fans out there? If so, let's discuss!" or "Chat about your day in this thread!" or "Question for punks! Is One Direction a punk band?"
That last one is a joke dON'T COME AFTER ME PUNKS LMAO
But ones like "I waved hi to my crush today" or "Rant about my teacher" or "Bought new jeans today" like- This is a forum site not Tumblr, PLEASE just talk to a friend about that or something cause truth be told most people on this site couldn't give a darn diddly-
Like I get it, this is one of the only sites on the internet where no matter how many followers you have, if you post you'll instantly get buttloads of comments and heck it feels great! But... C'mon, man, just DM a friend-
Also FRICK MAN please DON'T VENT HERE like... The amount of vent posts have gone down which just, mm-mm, good job Ms. Site-Creator- But to anyone thinkin "Hmm, maybe I'll trauma dump on kandipatterns.com today!" please just... Say what you just thought again back to yourself- Slowly-
All the age regression thread posts... Eh... Age regression is a valid coping mechanism, sfw, and effective. Discussion on it fits what I consider a "thread" so there is nothing necessarily wrong with making age regression threads for Q&As or discussion (Personally I feel it to be an incredible breach of your own privacy to the point of practically doxxing yourself, y'know, people can use that stuff against you?) but... Please be mindful that some people (AKA, m e -) get incredibly uncomfortable seeing stuff on that. I'm just asking, please don't make your thread titles on this subject "Played with my stuffie today! <33" or "Lets have a playdate! : D" just... "How my age regressed day went" or something vague like that... Please? I mean I think one time I saw a thread title in little speak and it made me feel kINDA EHHH- JUST PLS DON'T DO IT, LMAO

Anyway, ya, that's my dumb rant, God bless U all and peace-

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rockylovesrocks
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Feb 23, 2022 10:10 am

I absolutely agree with you!! Age regressing is fine, but I hate little kids cuz they make me uncomfortable, so therefore age regressors make me uncomfy. Idk why I hate little kids, they just are uncomfy for me.

Also, I hate seeing vent posts. I always report them cuz they make me so so so uncomfortable.

xXJustJoking8P
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:14 am

@rockylovesrocks: Ya, I get it, kids can suck, lmao! It personally makes me uncomfy cause... Idk, seeing a teenager/adult use words like "stuffie" or "blankie" or talk about sucking on their "binky"... Eh... It just makes me feel... Idk, man-

Oo, great work! I never thought of reporting them, I always just ignored them- I'll do that the next time I see one!

BuzzyBoy
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:18 am

i dont mind light hearted posts like that where they talk about their day and stuff, bc i feel like it can spark discussion. if no one responds to it, oh well no harm in it.

but with that last part i 100% agree. a few months ago there were A LOT of vent posts going up at once so thats why there is the "harmful topics are banned" message is up. i still don't understand why those people (or anyone who still does it) thinks that this is the appropriate place to post those sort of topics. there are so many young, mentally ill, and easily influence people on this site where it can become a breeding ground for toxicity and false information. and omg i get SO uncomfortable with that age regression stuff and anything else like that. not to shame anyone but this is not the place for it

BuzzyBoy
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:19 am

idk if i phrased any of that right i was up until 1am but i hope u get my point

Shaggy2_Dogg
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:33 am

Age regression is perfectly fine but people rlly need to be careful about it. I see a ton of lil kids get into it which ain't really a problem but it also unfortunately overlaps with other NSFW communities. When people words things like how you said I can't help but imagine that attracting predators

xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx
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Feb 23, 2022 10:38 am

@jUggal0_pUppY: yea regression and age pl4y are 2 different things and its annoying when ppl mix em

-flint

xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:43 am

I really agree with this thread but i would like to say that age regression is a coping mechanism, and i can see why it makes ppl uncomfy, simply just not opening the thread will prevent that. i'm sorry it makes ppl uncomfy but you also have to understand that some of us dont have other places to talk about it. Im not saying it should take over the site but a thread abt it once in a while is perfectly fine. Also making regression nsfw is age pl4y and they are 2 different things. regression is not innapropriate whatsoever. sorry 4 kinda spiraling/ranting-

-flint

Shaggy2_Dogg
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:44 am

@xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx: Ain't saying they were, just saying that people who aren't adults may not be able to tell aspects apart especially in conversation with strangers online

Alexander_The_3th
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:51 am

steamy hot take, i know, but.....

doesn't this whole post go against that idea? I feel like a lot of this has been said, and will continue to be said but the posts arent going to stop unless someone working on the site decides against it. I'm not saying never post anything, but yk... it kinda gets repetitive. anyway, steamy take i know, but idk.

/nm