Dumm-Dumm Rant on Some Threads/Ppl Here

xXJustJoking8P 2/23/2022 10:05 am 771

OK this has been said a MILLION times but I want to really break down my opinion on this cause grr angy-

I do not agree that only kandi has to be talked on this site. There's an "Other discussions" category for a reason. Yes, it uses rave culture as an example but I don't see posts not about rave/kandi stuff being actively taken down so I'm assuming the site creator dosen't mind/care. BUT here's the thing. When you post on this site, it says "Post a thread"

Not a blog post
Not a vent
Not a trauma dump
A thread.

Threads are for active discussion. So like, I agree completely off-topic posts are fine BUT when I say, that I mean ones like "Any Skrillex fans out there? If so, let's discuss!" or "Chat about your day in this thread!" or "Question for punks! Is One Direction a punk band?"
That last one is a joke dON'T COME AFTER ME PUNKS LMAO
But ones like "I waved hi to my crush today" or "Rant about my teacher" or "Bought new jeans today" like- This is a forum site not Tumblr, PLEASE just talk to a friend about that or something cause truth be told most people on this site couldn't give a darn diddly-
Like I get it, this is one of the only sites on the internet where no matter how many followers you have, if you post you'll instantly get buttloads of comments and heck it feels great! But... C'mon, man, just DM a friend-
Also FRICK MAN please DON'T VENT HERE like... The amount of vent posts have gone down which just, mm-mm, good job Ms. Site-Creator- But to anyone thinkin "Hmm, maybe I'll trauma dump on kandipatterns.com today!" please just... Say what you just thought again back to yourself- Slowly-
All the age regression thread posts... Eh... Age regression is a valid coping mechanism, sfw, and effective. Discussion on it fits what I consider a "thread" so there is nothing necessarily wrong with making age regression threads for Q&As or discussion (Personally I feel it to be an incredible breach of your own privacy to the point of practically doxxing yourself, y'know, people can use that stuff against you?) but... Please be mindful that some people (AKA, m e -) get incredibly uncomfortable seeing stuff on that. I'm just asking, please don't make your thread titles on this subject "Played with my stuffie today! <33" or "Lets have a playdate! : D" just... "How my age regressed day went" or something vague like that... Please? I mean I think one time I saw a thread title in little speak and it made me feel kINDA EHHH- JUST PLS DON'T DO IT, LMAO

Anyway, ya, that's my dumb rant, God bless U all and peace-

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xXJustJoking8P
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Feb 23, 2022 12:40 pm

@The_Cowboy_Lad: OHHH ok, I get it! Don't worry, you don't sound rude at all, my good sir! When I said "vent" I meant like trauma dumps and stuff, but ones that are just like "Am I the only one who hates it when people do this?" or "You guys heard the news? I'm so sad over it! : (" are fine! What upsets me are the ones like "I fucking hate my dad!" or "I can't take living anymore!", like... The personal ones, y'know?

xXJustJoking8P
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Feb 23, 2022 11:04 am

@BuzzyBoy: Ya, I get that! Agree to disagree n' stuff! uwu And I KNOW like I don't get why people vent here? Holy shoot, one time I saw a thread that was a vent that invited people to vent IN THE COMMENTS so it was just a HUGE trauma dump and I was like "HUH??" lol

Also WOW I thought I was the only one uncomfortable with agereg- I don't get posting it online cause like, posting ANYTHING related to trauma online can seriously muck you over but like I can't force anyone to do stuff, y'know?

xXJustJoking8P
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Feb 23, 2022 11:01 am

@xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx: Nah, it's fine, dude! I think you misunderstood my section of it though cause I never really said I want everyone to stop making em or that it was sexual. I get that it's sfw, a coping mechanism, and you need someone to talk to about it, I just would appreciate it if you'd also be mindful that it really squicks some people out so pls be mindful when titling it, y'know? And yes, if I open the thread it's just my fault at that point, what I was saying in my section of it is that it's fine to post about it but please use vague titles

since I've seen a good few agereg threads that used some descriptive titles or were in littlespeak... Or at least descriptive in my definition, lol

Alexander_The_3th
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Feb 23, 2022 11:00 am

@xXJustJoking8P: lol nah i don't think ur a hypocrite, i cant really judge anyone unless i know them lolz. I'm talking about the vent thing, but i see what ur saying lol. sorry if i sounded mean, my typing is doo doo fart

natluvscats688
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Feb 23, 2022 10:57 am

@xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx: oh yes completely. i cant stand when people mix them up because one is completely hecking valid and helpful, but the other is just icky. -paris

yeah it honestly kind of hurts when people group them together.. i mean yeah im a part of both, but they're not the same thing at all -nathan

oh ew i didnt know nathan was an age pl4yer... nasty -paris

xXJustJoking8P
Member

Feb 23, 2022 10:57 am

@The_Cowboy_Lad: No, don't worry, I get it! I don't necessarily feel it does since in my post I said I'm fine with non-kandi non-rave threads that spark discussion and it seems like a bit of a discussion has sparked from this, y'know? But I totally get why it looks like I'm just a massive hypocrite, lol

Alexander_The_3th
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Feb 23, 2022 10:55 am

@The_Cowboy_Lad: for the record, i will say i am a massive hypocrite... but i mean.. who isn't?

Alexander_The_3th
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Feb 23, 2022 10:51 am

steamy hot take, i know, but.....

doesn't this whole post go against that idea? I feel like a lot of this has been said, and will continue to be said but the posts arent going to stop unless someone working on the site decides against it. I'm not saying never post anything, but yk... it kinda gets repetitive. anyway, steamy take i know, but idk.

/nm

Shaggy2_Dogg
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Feb 23, 2022 10:44 am

@xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx: Ain't saying they were, just saying that people who aren't adults may not be able to tell aspects apart especially in conversation with strangers online

xXZ0mbi3_Gut5Xx
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Feb 23, 2022 10:43 am

I really agree with this thread but i would like to say that age regression is a coping mechanism, and i can see why it makes ppl uncomfy, simply just not opening the thread will prevent that. i'm sorry it makes ppl uncomfy but you also have to understand that some of us dont have other places to talk about it. Im not saying it should take over the site but a thread abt it once in a while is perfectly fine. Also making regression nsfw is age pl4y and they are 2 different things. regression is not innapropriate whatsoever. sorry 4 kinda spiraling/ranting-

-flint

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