OK this has been said a MILLION times but I want to really break down my opinion on this cause grr angy-
I do not agree that only kandi has to be talked on this site. There's an "Other discussions" category for a reason. Yes, it uses rave culture as an example but I don't see posts not about rave/kandi stuff being actively taken down so I'm assuming the site creator dosen't mind/care. BUT here's the thing. When you post on this site, it says "Post a thread"
Not a blog post
Not a vent
Not a trauma dump
A thread.
Threads are for active discussion. So like, I agree completely off-topic posts are fine BUT when I say, that I mean ones like "Any Skrillex fans out there? If so, let's discuss!" or "Chat about your day in this thread!" or "Question for punks! Is One Direction a punk band?"
That last one is a joke dON'T COME AFTER ME PUNKS LMAO
But ones like "I waved hi to my crush today" or "Rant about my teacher" or "Bought new jeans today" like- This is a forum site not Tumblr, PLEASE just talk to a friend about that or something cause truth be told most people on this site couldn't give a darn diddly-
Like I get it, this is one of the only sites on the internet where no matter how many followers you have, if you post you'll instantly get buttloads of comments and heck it feels great! But... C'mon, man, just DM a friend-
Also FRICK MAN please DON'T VENT HERE like... The amount of vent posts have gone down which just, mm-mm, good job Ms. Site-Creator- But to anyone thinkin "Hmm, maybe I'll trauma dump on kandipatterns.com today!" please just... Say what you just thought again back to yourself- Slowly-
All the age regression thread posts... Eh... Age regression is a valid coping mechanism, sfw, and effective. Discussion on it fits what I consider a "thread" so there is nothing necessarily wrong with making age regression threads for Q&As or discussion (Personally I feel it to be an incredible breach of your own privacy to the point of practically doxxing yourself, y'know, people can use that stuff against you?) but... Please be mindful that some people (AKA, m e -) get incredibly uncomfortable seeing stuff on that. I'm just asking, please don't make your thread titles on this subject "Played with my stuffie today! <33" or "Lets have a playdate! : D" just... "How my age regressed day went" or something vague like that... Please? I mean I think one time I saw a thread title in little speak and it made me feel kINDA EHHH- JUST PLS DON'T DO IT, LMAO
Anyway, ya, that's my dumb rant, God bless U all and peace-
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