am i valid if i don't rave?

DUK3NUK3M 4/27/2023 03:48 pm 1511

hi, I've been making kandi for a while and wearing it because it helps me express myself through accessorizing. but 99% of kandi makers i know are ravers and kandi itself originated from raves. i respect raving, idc what you do as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, but I personally don't think I can stand them because of the extremely loud music and chaotic atmosphere. I also do not want to do uh... substances.


am I still allowed to make kandi even if I'm not a raver/never want to go to a rave?

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May 3, 2023 1:40 pm

Yeah. Also not everyone who raves wears kandi.

Personally I enjoy smaller/local raves and making kandi.

May 3, 2023 1:52 pm

absolutely!!

dont listen to some of the oldheads, there are surprisingly alot of elitist kandi kidz

i personally dont rave because my tics get bad around flashing lights and loud sounds, and i get overwhelmed easy which has caused tic attacks before

i think everyone should be valid regardless of whether or not they rave tbh

May 3, 2023 7:46 pm

ofc ofc!!dance