lesboys?

Lord_Cookie 8/9/2021 04:08 am 2090

what is a lesboy, how does it work? /gen - cookie :]

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Aug 15, 2021 5:21 am

not meant to be on here, im rushing this but dont attack or be rude about peoples identities, i dont want this to be the most popular thread of mine, im probably never going talk again because i am not meant to but this was a bit wrrying, (i only checked because i can look at patterns, just not talk much), if any thread i want to be "popular" of mine is the meeting people, not this thread as it slowly seems to be turning toxic, respect others please - cookie

Aug 14, 2021 8:58 pm

you don't have to understand one's identity but that doesn't mean you're not allowed to question it. of course it's good to respect one another but just as identity can't be policed, neither can speech or thought. this whole ordeal seems like a nonissue to me but that's just how i feel

Aug 14, 2021 8:25 pm

At some point y'all gotta understand that you're not gonna "get" every identity, and that's okay. You don't have to understand what's going on with someone, you just gotta respect it. Because the more you spend time in irl lgbt spaces, the more you'll find people who seem to contradict their own identities and people who you can't understand and. that's just life. People are going to exist in ways you've never heard of. If someone genuinely feels like a term fits them, then it's right for them and that's all that matters big grin

  • strawberrybrostrider
Aug 14, 2021 7:38 pm

there's a lot of misinformation being spread in this forum and im not fucking vibing with it. this isn't directed at lord_cookie (rip dude) it's directed at everyone in the comments. In the end, other people's identities just aren't your business. if you yourself aren't a lesboy you can't define our experiences for us, and you sure as hell can't say whether we are or aren't valid. Queerness is a wonderfully diverse thing, it's not always gonna fit into a box. We don't owe you a full explanation of our identities in order to be able to exist.

Aug 14, 2021 6:01 pm

@Male: yes ik but they arent ''lesboy''

Aug 14, 2021 5:40 pm

@scenekween666: thats what im saying, if a non binary person presents masculinely they can still be a lesbian because they are not a man

Aug 14, 2021 5:17 pm

@Male: but nonbinary arent men? what

Aug 14, 2021 5:17 pm

I've seen people use the label when they identify with masc and fem (fluid, bigender, etc). But I may be mistaken-?

Aug 14, 2021 5:07 pm

@scenekween666: lesbian simply means nonmen loving nonmen, transmasc (non binary) but not trans men (binary) people can present masculine w/o being a man and still call themselves boys. like if i liked women i couldn't call myself a lesbian because i am a binary man, but if i were masc presenting/identifying non binary and i happened to like women i could be a lesbian, it is not men pretending to be lesbians

Aug 14, 2021 4:55 pm

i dont personally think its valid in my opinion cause boys cant be lesbian