this hasn't happened to me on this site, but i feel like people walk allover me all the time in regards to my kandi. people will ask me for free stuff & know that i run a store/dont have a lot of time for trades but still message me all the time asking me why i'm taking so long/what i have done/when they will get it, etc etc. maybe this is a dumb thing to be upset about but it really bugs me because i tell these people over and over that i'm really busy and don't have all day to sit around making kandi for them.
& i feel like whenever i tell people that their behavior makes me uncomfortable/disrespected that they always freak out and go on a tangent about how theyre the worst/feel selfish/just feel bad...so i have to console them... but then won't change how they act... i don't know how to handle this because usually these people are younger than me and i don't want to hurt their feelings or make them feel like i'm mad at them/hate them. sometimes i feel like theres really no other option than to just do whatever everybody else wants. im sick of letting people walk allover me 
if anyone has any advice it's welcome but i mostly just wanted to get this out somewhere, thx for reading stranger
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