How do I get someone to leave me alone? (TW SA)

Sparkly_cheeseburgers86 4/26/2024 10:04 am 277

This girl I've been friends with for like a year has started to like be toxic and SA me serval times, I've told her to not talk to me anymore but she keeps texting me and butting into my conversations.

I have no idea what to do at this point and I'm really close to just reporting her to the school. But I feel like that won't do anything because I've done that before with other people and the school hasn't really done anything about it.

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Apr 26, 2024 10:05 pm

People like that make my blood boil!angry I hope everything turns out good for youcheer

Apr 26, 2024 8:48 pm

1) Block them 2) tell them how you feel and how that they need to find a new friend 3) And when that doesn't work go feral on them attack their dignity and their personality.

Apr 26, 2024 2:25 pm

go up to the vice principal/principal directly. not the front office, they will forget.

Apr 26, 2024 1:48 pm

@Sparkly_cheeseburgers86: I hope things will get better 4 u, wishing u luckw04

Apr 26, 2024 1:08 pm
@D3lil4h: I am planning on texting her parents, and i only have one class with her and the only other time i see her is at lunch so I'll see what i can do with just avoiding her
Apr 26, 2024 1:07 pm

@icosa0550: I'll definitely try this, tysm for the support

Apr 26, 2024 12:57 pm

Omg, first of all, I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope she gets expelled and her parents know about it and punish her )=

I would recommend trying to get away from her, like taking other routes to classes and try to switch classes you have with her if you have any and if the school will let you. With the texting, you could maybe change your number or block hers. I’m sorry to hear you’re going through this D: Hopefully this will help and she gets what she deserves, and if it is SA, please tell someone, it’s not good to keep it secret. At least just tell a friend to get it off your chest, I hope you’ll feel better )

Apr 26, 2024 12:35 pm

i'm not sure if this will work for you, but what i do is deadass just ignore them. if someones bothering you and they wont go away, literally tell them you dont want to talk to them and pretend they're not there no matter what they do. it works 100% of the time but you have to really commit to it. it took me like two weeks to get rid of somebody but if they're looking for attention and you don't give it, they will go somewhere else for it.

also, SA? i'm not sure what exactly that means in this context but if you mean *that* SA that's something that needs to be reported. I would start with your parent / guardian(s) if they are trustworthy, and move to the teachers if nothing happens. in the us teachers are mandated reporters, they legally have to address it with administration.

Apr 26, 2024 12:27 pm

I say report her, even if it doesn't make it anywhere you can go and probs talk to the police and tell them that the school didn't do anything and they will most likely either do something themselves or force the school to do something. I hope this helps!hklolly

Apr 26, 2024 10:55 am

you need to report her tbh