how did you know you were lgbt?

boygeniusreal 9/19/2023 03:34 pm 671

i’ve always assumed i was cis/straight, but i think i like a girl?? we picked up something out of our bags at the same time and our faces got really close. after that my heart was like pounding ???? i’ve had bfs before and i’ve never felt that way? do i just think she’s cool, bc i feel like i’ve felt differently about boys or is it romanti

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Sep 20, 2023 9:59 am

i always used to hang out with the same person, and soon i felt like i liked her then i moved and i met my girl in 2019 and we got comfy enough to become together, ig it just comes from your heart. dont be ashamed if you are lgbt or not, no matter what we will accept you happy

Sep 20, 2023 9:37 am

hh honestly it was just listening to other peoples experiences. like on tiktok transmasc people share their experiences and that rlly helped me. i thought i liked girls for a while until in a group chat i was in someone was like "hey why dont we all date" and i was like oh ok and it turns out i like guys better than girls lmao. /srs

I hope u can figure it out! rlly just take ur time exploring who u r big grinD !! (i sound like someones mom cryingcrying)

Sep 20, 2023 8:48 am

idk it was sort of a process since I started feeling romantic feelings like in 4th grade, and I liked girly girls and noticed i didn't like guys hksunglasses

Sep 20, 2023 7:50 am

I was learning about identities, found demigirl, and was like "yeah, that tracks"

Sep 20, 2023 7:39 am

I was really into the Batman comics as a kid so when I found out Harley X Poison Ivy was a thing n my mind was blown that could even happen, then somewhere down the line some wires got crossed and I am a man now

Sep 20, 2023 7:16 am

Ever since i broke up with so many boys , I finally found a girlfriend who actually treated me right , Shes so sweet !! At this point i knew that my type was girls , so here i am , a proud lesbian :3happy

Sep 20, 2023 6:59 am

@Pinky: same thing happened with me and my bestie sad

Sep 20, 2023 6:22 am

boobies blush /hj


in all seriousness my best friend at the time (we haven’t talked in years now lolll) we were like 8 haha i never made a move though

And then when I was 11 there was this girl I was also best friends with. We kissed haha. Our parents found out and had us not see each other ever again. Miss her a lot lmao

Sep 20, 2023 5:54 am

it was mostly my pronouns bothering me really bad, so my friend was trying to use different pronouns and i really liked they/them and then after that i realized the same feeling was like that and then i came out as pan. but i guess my crippling anxiety also helped with the fact when i thought i was just really nervous around girls and then the same with boys but i knew that, but then i guess i was like that with someone i would frequently look for and if they weren't everything felt dull to me, i thought it was because we were friends and stuff but then i guess i just realized i like that? (idk thats just how i realized sorry for the detailed descriptionkao blank

Sep 20, 2023 12:59 am

This is my deepest, darkest secret....


(It was the dragon from Shrek) kao lol