(TW just kinda weird and uncomfortable) My straight uncle tried to tell ME a pan$exu@l about pan$exu@l!ty

Cinnamorolling_InMyGrave_ 6/18/2023 03:54 pm 311

Ok so I was saying that I think that most people who aren't aro-ace are probably pan cause like if you're attracted to someone, you're attracted to them like you can't dictate who you like. Hes allowed to disagree with me of course but, he, seemingly out of nowhere, told ME (he knows I'm not straight and hes supportive) that when people are talking about being pan they mean it in a s3xu@l manner. Bro what are you on about fr. I love him but what? Like you're H3tero$exual does that mean you only like women $exu@ly? No, the answer is no. Just because something has $exu@l in the name doesn't mean thats what its all about. Like bro just, what? You're $tr@ight shut up and do not tell me what it means to be pan. I'm sure he had no malintent but still. Its like when white people try to be like "well in MY opinion" about bl@ck people. Stop, just stop. If you have no personal relation to the topic, you shouldn't say anything. Unless you are just trying to say something that the community is trying to say but no one will listen but they will listen to you, don't say anything. It's really that simple. Just don't talk.