Idk what my gender is

Deleted Account 4/8/2023 02:30 pm 367

if anyone could help me find out what my gender is please comment, so i am afab but i started experiencing with different pronouns and i dont feel anything weird or bad when my friends say he or they or she, it really dosent feel any different for me + i have also been wanting to be flat and feeling uncomfortable about my chest but i dont know if that means smth, i have thought about agender but maybe it could be nonbinary? idk 513b3952851d7_shrug.gif i have also like been asking myself if i feel like a girl but idk

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Apr 11, 2023 7:29 am

@Mary2581: okay cool!! i'm glad that i helped a little!! beating heartlil rainbow

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Apr 10, 2023 10:06 pm

@Lyric_Lol: yess thats what i thought too!beating heart

Apr 10, 2023 12:14 pm

@Mary2581: then you could be agender!!! but ofc, it's always up to how you want to identify as lil rainbow

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Apr 10, 2023 12:10 pm

@Lyric_Lol: i understand how you could get genderfluid but i dont think i am since i dont ever really feel like a boy or a girl yk? i most often feel masculine and rarely but still sometimes i feel femine but when i feel masculine i dont like feel like a boy and the same with femine, thank for the comment thobeating heart btw my cat is sitting on my lab and looking at what i type rn laugh

Apr 10, 2023 9:24 am

everyone experiences gender differently and it can be hard for some people.. from what you're telling us it sounds like you could possible be genderfluid but if you're more comfy with it, you can prefer to identify as a girl/boy. ik a lot of people find being non-binary confusing but you can still identify as non-binary and be masculine/feminine. it's all about how you want to express your gender identity and you don't necessarily have to fit into "gender norms"..

i hope i helped!! lil rainbowkao happy

Apr 8, 2023 7:29 pm

for myself, i stopped caring or trying to give myself a label. other people arent entitled to how I feel about myself, and only my friends need to understand it. i like neopronouns because they kinda remove any association to gender, but I don't care what people call me because everyone has different perspectives. this is just how I feel obvs, hope this helps in some way though!!blush

Apr 8, 2023 4:32 pm

Maybe Paragender? Im not exactly sure though because I also deal with that crying

Apr 8, 2023 2:41 pm

you could be pangender or trigender.. but remember gender ≠ pronouns. I'm a good example of gender being not the same as pronouns. I identify as a guy but I also use neopronouns, and that doesn't change anything