gender/ sexuality crisis :,(

L1M1N4L_5P4CE_2 3/18/2023 12:31 am 357

Someone please assist me in finding a label; I cant live w out one

So basically I use he/him, I like he/him, I don't like she or they pronouns, I am not comfy with femme/andro labels except for wife/partner for some reason
I do NOT like being referred to as a girl or a person, most time guy/boy feels okay but sometimes it can feel weird too
here's the thing though.
I. love. femininity. i want to wear dresses and do my makeup and have long hair and act feminine (what i find feminine, at least)
BUT
i also love androgyny and things I find andro
AND
I also love my masculinity.

its very fluid though but i don't know if that's gender fluid? and im not very comfy with that label its like being genderfluid without my preferred pronouns or gendered terms changing!!! is there a word for that?? please help, its putting a lot of stress on me since i need labels to function.

AND.. my sexuality..

i really like guys, and i really like girls,

im more sexually attracted to men i think but i wouldn't care about the gender of my partner if i loved them, it doesnt matter to me!! but also sometimes i dont find myself attracted to men or women and then sometimes its only one or the other but it never changes how i'd feel about someone im in a relationship with? like i'd always be attraced to them? also it might have to do with the fact im more comfy hitting on guys than girl ykwim? i do find them VERY pretty.

sos. need lables. love yall/p

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Cicey_Kandiii
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Mar 20, 2023 8:09 am

genderfluid?

Love_Lost
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Mar 20, 2023 7:43 am

@L1M1N4L_5P4CE_2: thanks!!

jar_of_pickle
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Mar 19, 2023 9:25 pm

azurboy is the closest i could get to your gender, i dunno

L1M1N4L_5P4CE_2
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Mar 19, 2023 9:17 pm

@Lyric_Lol: YOU ARE AMAZING

RuikasaJumpscare
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Mar 18, 2023 8:02 pm

Im not exactly sure about the gender part, but im getting Abrosexual/romantic and Omni vibes :]

Love_Lost
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Mar 18, 2023 12:22 pm

hey!! so i actually understand what you're talking about!!

so about the gender part, it's totally okay to feel that way! Here are a few gender terms and umbrella terms that kind of explain what you're feeling!!

1. Aporagender: Both a specific gender identity and an umbrella term for being non-binary gender separate from man, woman, and anything between while still having a very strong and specific gendered feeling.

2. Bigender: Someone who have/experiences two genders.

3. Gender nonconforming/Gender diverse/Gender variant/Gender expansive: These are umbrella terms and descriptions which refer to people who identify and/or express themselves in ways that are different from society's binary norms.

4. Genderflux: Someone whose experiences with gender changes (fluctuates) in intensity.

5. Maxigender: Someone who experiences many, and sometimes, all available gender to them.

(these aren't all of the genders that you're probably experiencing! I can link the book I got with whole bunch of gender/sexuality terms at the end!)

then about the sexuality part, remember that you're feelings are always valid no matter who you like or how you like someone! Here are some sexualities:

1. Abrosexual/romantic: Someone who experiences a fluid and/or changing orientation.

2. Pansexual/romantic a.k.a Omnisexual/romantic: Capable of being attracted to any or all gender(s).

3. Novosexual/romantic: A person whose attractions change based on the gender(s) they are experiencing.

Remember that these are NOT all the sexualities/gender out there!! There are hundreds of labels waiting to be picked by people!! When choosing who you are remember that nothing is set in stone and that you can always change your gender/sexuality if you are not comfortable.

I hope I helped and I wish you luck!!

the link to the book I have abt sexualities/genders/identities: https://www.amazon.com/ABCs-LGBT-Ashley-Mardell/dp...

gender/ sexuality crisis :,(

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