THREAD RULES:
- you CANNOT name any names. partially for privacy, partially for safety if the subject happens to use the site (but don't go talking shit about people you know are on here)
- nothing against site rules, obviously, but also if you're asked to remove your reply by someone, please. please. do not fight about it. don't try to sneakily keep it posted. just delete it. i don't wanna see any fights in here, and if i see one start i'll just delete the thread. easy as that
- the stuff you talk about HAS to be at least a year old, hence the "old" in the title. and when i say a year i don't mean like cheesy New Year's "i havent [x] in a year" jokes, i mean 12 whole months minimum
this is kinda just so i can tell this story but feel free to share yours /gen
so back in like august 2021, i made a friend. and she was pretty cool at first but she SUCKED actually. she dated someone who she was explicitly warned would take advantage of her while lashing out at everyone who warned her about him, constantly trauma dumped to me, would make Really Weird And Uncomfortable comments that someone who's an 18-year-old in a committed relationship shouldn't be making to a 15-year-old regardless of if they're in the same school or not, and was generally Not Great. she was also HIGHLY aphobic ("asexuality is unnatural" type shit), she was vehemently against neopronouns, was oddly transphobic despite being trans herself, and like idk if there's a term for it but. homophobic to polyam people i guess? like "i got cheated on once and the guy said it was bc he was polyamorous so i dont like polyam people", that's what she said. and i get that being cheated on can cause trauma but like. girl. you are Talking To A Polyamorous Person . what is your goal here
i did stop being friends with her, but not before she completely refused to admit she was wrong about anything even after i explained to her why i was uncomfortable and didn't wanna be her friend anymore. her boyfriend predictably broke up with her like a week after they started dating because he Always Did That it was like his whole routine, she moved out of state, never heard from her again
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