Dealing With A Kandi Bully/Poser

Deleted Account 3/19/2013 04:28 am 1572

so there is this one girl in my school who always complimented my kandi, i didnt take it as much because no one in my school wears kandi so when i made something new a lot of people would think its cool. Well recently this girl started making kandi and wearing and dont get me wrong i love teaching people how to make kandi and about plur but this girl always told me about how stupid she thought plur was and how she hated anything edm and the raving scene.she never stops talking about how she "love making kandi" and "omg i cant even fit anymore on my arms" and "Why arent you wearing more kandi?" she keeps telling me how shes a bigger kandi kid than i am and that im being unplur when i dont trade with her, ive tried explaining that i dont wear tradables at school and almost all the kandi i wear was given to me by a friend. this probably sounds like stupid school drama but i dont like being put down about something as special as kandi

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JubJub
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Mar 27, 2013 10:16 pm

There are people like that everywhere. But in my school, girls are calling hemp bracelets kandi XD you just laugh at it and play along.

Radio
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Mar 26, 2013 4:27 pm

People like that are just in it to be cool & they will fall out of it. There are so many people like that in my city whom I have on Facebook. To a lot of people, it's just a trend. Ignore her- she'll go away eventually lol.

yay123yay
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Mar 22, 2013 5:41 pm

same has happend to me .... i had a friend and i taughht her how to make kandi and she loved it.... and we were bff but she wasnt into the background of it you knoe like the music or any of the bands... later than we stopped being friends and after 2months of not going over to her house everyday to teach her how to make kandi she forgot how and she was asking me to make her stuff cause she fforgot how to do it and im just like hahaahha no thnx

heyyaMomo
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Mar 21, 2013 8:31 pm

only YOU can judge whether you are a TRUE kandi kid or not. You aren't unplur for trading with her, as you've explained that you don't have any traders with you at school. There's not much you can do about her, just let her do her thing. Just try to ignore her or avoid her as much as you can, because that is something you can control.

Beck
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Mar 19, 2013 8:57 pm

As hard as it is to ignore obnoxious people like this girl it's the best route. She probably won't be making jewelry for very long when she doesn't get the recognition, trades, and attention she wants out of it. Just carry on as you normally would.

DayStar
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Mar 19, 2013 12:56 pm

I think in general, let people do what they want to do. doesn't sound like she's actually harming you (you are in control of your own feelings) so just let it be. You know in your own heart that you dont agree with her and that should be enough for you. If you explain yourself to her and she doesn't want to listen, thats her problem not yours. You do you and let her do her. every own has their own opinions.

(personally i think anyone can make beaded jewelry/creations but if your not a raver or have the plur mentality its not necessarily "kandi")

Dealing With A Kandi Bully/Poser

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