My friends deadnaming me (NOT A VENTTT)

CybrBoy 2/20/2022 10:52 pm 404

SO my friend kilo (irl friend) keeps deadnaming me, and it rlly bothers me and idk how to tell them to like, not yk?

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Feb 21, 2022 9:32 am

say something like "hey, even if it's not intentional, it really hurts me when you call me by my deadname. it would be appreciated if you could call me instead" and correct them when they do it

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 8:26 am

@urloverboy: st8 boys scare the poopoo out of me

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 6:15 am

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: imma boy outta the womb and still am

Feb 21, 2022 6:06 am

@Lord_Cookie: yes this is what ive started doing!!

it actually kinda works


i dont respond to the popular str8 boys on my bus unless they start calling me the name i go by in school, and they do eventually catch on and start doing it. i know they're mocking me but eh i couldn't care less

Feb 21, 2022 6:05 am

@CoNN13Killz: im sry im like genuinely so confuzzled r u a boy or a girl or neither or sum else kao sickkao sick

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 6:03 am

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: idk they keep tellin me weird shit like ew why aint u wearing a bra

Feb 21, 2022 5:53 am

@CoNN13Killz: connie sounds like the name of a soda tf they doin sayin "thats not a boys name oooOoOscared"

  • CoNN13Killz
Feb 21, 2022 5:12 am

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: bro i just quit telling ppl my prefed name cus they think im a pushover and it makes em think im trans cus its not a "boy name"

Feb 21, 2022 2:47 am

i literally dont understand y ppl r respectful to those who deadname u

my friend accidentally deadnamed me last week n i cursed her out, even if its n accident, it pisses me off sm to hear my deadname like im basically crawling outta my skin jus thinkin abt it

literally tell em ur preferred name n if they throw a tantrum or even look the slightest bit annoyed, tell em to fuck off!!

Feb 21, 2022 2:09 am

what we did was everytime someone dead named us, we just went "not our name" and wouldnt answer until they called us by the right one. its kinda rude but i mean, so is dead naming when you know the persons name, we only did it when like, people were properly ignoring our actual name, not like genuine mistakes.
if its a new change just kindly remind them, if its been months (like our case) then stop responding by the dead name, it forces people to actually use it which is good. *goop* - charlie slimecicle