tired of forums becoming social media

WATERPARKS 2/9/2022 02:39 pm 2041

i mean this in the nicest way possible, but i'm sick of 13 year olds on this website treating it like a diary or a social media. forums are not the same as social media, this is a KANDI website, not a place to vent about genuinely heavy topics (they literally have a banner saying this before you post a thread) or kin or whatever.

i know there are edge cases of people not being allowed real social media, but this is meant to be a lighthearted site to talk about a specific common interest, not how much you hate your parents or how you want a new partner.

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Nov 2, 2022 6:47 am

@yourtubbo: yeah, thanks for specifying this! it's 100% sfw and healthy, and its really disheartening to see how many people misunderstand what age-re is. it's crucial for our system to use that skill to cope /gen

-wilbur

Nov 2, 2022 4:53 am

@raygunrampage: the "littlespace" that ive seen discussed on here is age regression which is a non-sexual and not kink related coping mechanism. it is not connected at all to ddlg or whatever /info

Nov 1, 2022 9:44 pm

@raygunrampage: youre thinking of ddlg / clg / other k!nky shit, littlespace is compeltely sfw //info

Nov 1, 2022 8:26 pm

adding onto this can we please stop talking about little space and things of that nature its so effing uncomfortable most of you guys are minors! !wacko

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Nov 1, 2022 4:41 am

@GoldenSnailz_: yeah i agree but they r talking abt heavy topics i think

Nov 1, 2022 4:39 am

I mean yeah I agree with the heavy topics and stuff but idk i think asking stuff like "does anyone else like (ex. fandom)" or something is ok. I mean it's just trying to find ppl with more common interests than just kandi

I do however agree with you on the "how much you hate your parents or how you want a new partner" stuff. I have been guilty of ranting on this site but I have since apologized and haven't done it since. but yeah ppl need to chill w the ranting and asking for partners. not only is it weird it's unsafe. /lh /nm

Oct 31, 2022 9:31 pm

boosting this one too

May 16, 2022 5:17 pm

boosting this one too because you do NOT need to post every single tiny little thought that comes to yalls minds

Feb 15, 2022 4:33 pm

fr tho. i get lighthearted stuff like, "oh i got a new dog" or "tell me hobbies other than kandi!" or smth but people really need to stop venting or just having unnecessary posts. for gods sake this is a kandi website! running botty pink

Feb 15, 2022 4:13 pm

@CrabShopping: yeah cuz people wanna talk abt other stuff and not abt kandi n stuff :/