gender question

Lord_Cookie 1/16/2022 05:13 am 644

we personally don't experience a lot of dysphoria (ftm) and feel comfortable with femme things like dresses and so on. we hate she/her pronouns and anything to do with femme nicknames but other than that. we are fine (a majority of the time, there are days where we despise dresses, or our chest/body etc) ?? we feel a lot of euphoria with he/him, they/them, being nb or male, masc or gender neutral nicknames and stuff and we always think of ourself as a boy or nb-esque. is this normal?? or are we faking being trans?? - cookie, moon, sunny.

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Jan 16, 2022 7:59 am
@jUggal0_pUppY: thank you!
  • CoNN13Killz
Jan 16, 2022 7:59 am

stop thinking that because if you feel those feelings then its real

Jan 16, 2022 7:58 am

@CaffieneFrenzy: thank you! I guess maybe I am numb as I've had my other trans friends say I only seem to "feel " it when it's so intense (they said that they would've felt it badly when I feel nothing) , like I only noticed it when someone was yelling at me that I'm a girl and etc thank you though!! - sunny?? moon??

Jan 16, 2022 7:58 am

@CaffieneFrenzy: omg i had no idea abt this like huh? That's like my whole life summed up lmao. When I dress masc sometimes I feel like I'm complete and I'm just like this is how I want to look, this is who I am on the inside lol is that euphoria? (I'm a demi girl btw)

Jan 16, 2022 7:51 am

Like other people have said this is normal

Jan 16, 2022 7:47 am

i just wanna say that alot of people dont think they have dysphoria but are actually just numb to it. If you have euphoria you're not faking and that also means you have dysphoria cuz euphoria is basically just relief from dysphoria

Jan 16, 2022 6:26 am

@Froggiepie: thank you so much!!

Jan 16, 2022 6:20 am

i do a lot of the same stuff! i'm a nonbinary afab person and i have dysphoria rarely (mostly about my chest) and i hate she/her, but i love dressing femme and stuff! pretty dress go spin big grin i feel very disconnected from my assigned gender but i like wearing fem stuff because it makes me happy!

being trans is different for everyone, if you guys feel that you are trans then you are trans!