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@Ary: that's fine! as another trans person, i personally just found it a bit strange that this term which people were fine with now was offensive lol. i don't think you're mean at all, i just wanted to explain how i saw it and how i felt about the word. have a nice day. - moon.

Edit: last thing ill say is also stay vigilant about the newer uses of words, like queer's history would give us the idea not to use it but its perfectly fine now due to the new uses

Im very sorry if I offended anyone its cool if you like the label of femboy. I really did not mean to invalidate anyone or be mean sorry/gen

@Ary: this isnt an attack/gen /srs

I know it's been used against trans women but that's like saying dont use the word gay because it's used as an insult, I'll respect your opinion about the word however, it is a perfectly fine word to use for the title, as moon was using the literal meaning behind femboy, feminine boys. this seems unnecessary especially on a positivity thread about femme people? femboy isn't used in a demeaning way so it shouldn't have to be removed, it's not a slur nor insult in nature. I find it hurtful as someone who identifies as a femboy to have my label called offensive just because it could be used as an insult and therefore had to be removed though that is my opinion. dont take this as an attack or anything, though. have a nice day /gen - moon.