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@jUggal0_pUppY: yeah i feel like, awful for posting my thread from earlier, even tho yes there was sensitive topics but i was genuinely asking for advice since my mother wont allow me to see a therapist

i ended up deleting it after seeing this thread cuz i dont wanna start any more problems, plus this thread made me feel like crap cuz this site is my only place to rly go n im not super close w anyone irl ://

n i dont vent to my friends so i can avoid feeling like a burden, i never felt like a burden venting here, but now i do since some ppl clearly dont like it

I think if you tag triggers appropriately and are genuinely looking for a solution for a problem I think it's ok but sometimes it gets bad when people just throw out rlly sensitive topics with just the title saying "help lol"

TW/ potentially triggering quote about weight, slight mention of ed

honestly, i only really find it annoying when the people make the thread really short and joke-ish..
like i get that some people cope by making jokes, i do too often; ...but its just like,, if youre making a thread, youre expecting people to reply, give advice, whatever..
how are poeple supposed to reply to ""LOL [insert triggering and unnecessary thing here] /hj anyways how are yall"" ??
like stop talking about these horrible things in a joke-ish light. i get that people do that and it literally cant be stopped.. but maybe keep it to yourself?
unless you really need help and are willing to be serious about the topic, of course.

for example, someone who will remain unnamed was spamming the threads one time and it was KINDA annoying? but i was like "whatever..",, but then they posted one where, essentially, they were like ""Ugh. I need to work-out so that i wont be fat anymore. I need to get skinny so i can fit into these mom jeans! Lol!""
i get that they were joking, but like all i could think,, was "WHY??" ...,,as a person with an active ED, this did not go over very well in my mind.
i find these sort of things completely unnecessary.

it just really annoys me when people make pointless threads that no one will reply to.. it just takes up space shines less light on the threads that are genuinely asking for help/advice, and even the threads that are just for fun.

TL;DR: i think that this place should be safe for people to vent on, however, if youre going to do it please take it seriously. its annoying lmao.

i agree, this is a site for kandi not to talk about heavy topics like this its so annoying honestly

FRR

like no one gives a fuck they just pretend to so you guys can stfu