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tw grooming mention

@XTrinity_TraumaticX: THIS. also - and i mean this in the nicest way possible - NOT EVERYBODY NEEDS OR WANTS TO KNOW YOUR MENTAL HEALTH OR ABOUT THE SITUATION YOU ARE IN. you shouldn't even be telling literal **BILLIONS** of people on the internet about your mental health, why you are so sad, how much you hate someone, and so on - it makes you vulnerable to online predators like groomers and other people who aim to hurt younger kids and teenagers who more than likely aren't mature enough let alone ever in the right mind set to realize that they are being targeted.

PLUS, every other thread having 283572984759824 trigger warnings - while i and everyone else appreciate the warnings - just full on clogs up the thread stream. people have actual questions about patterns, raves, about general stuff, and they HARDLY EVER get answers because everyone is just full-on clogging every single thread with random vents.

i understand that it is very nice to vent and get you emotions out, but PLEASE DO NOT DO IT HERE. you have notebooks and pens and paper, you have notes apps on your phone, you have your friends in real life, there are even phone hotlines that you can call. you have so many more options than to trigger literal children and teenagers on the internet and to make them just as depressed as you are.

It would make things so much easier without the constant trigger warnings and vauge rant posts because all it does is clog up the stream. Other people have genuine questions and need advice but never get answers due to the excessive rants and complaints. Take into consideration how many people are on here, most of them do not know you personally...soooo why would you be so open and overly sharing to strangers rather than someone who can help? There are multiple open hotlines for both call and text. They can help immediately and give better advice than someone's personal opinion on the internet?? Just saying there are literally numbers and websites created for that exact issue. Stop trying to grab at people on here just trying to cope with their own issues by making kandi and interacting with others. You can blatantly see in people's carrd's and bio's if they have open DM's if you seriously want to talk on here. It's not that hard.

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT. I'm so tired of opening the Kandi website just to see a bunch of stuff that's like TW SH. Talk to a counselor or a therapist. Maybe even a friend. I don't think this should be a place for people to vent. There's a million other places to do that. Stop freaking hating on OP for posting this. They aren't the only one who thinks it.

@soapbarcos: sir this is a kandi forum why would there be a section for vents /lh

@V4MP1RE_GUTZZ: you shouldn't feel bad at all, you were seeking help. I'm so sorry you feel this way. If you need someone to talk to I'm here.