So I have a Friend

Deleted Account 10/21/2012 07:09 am 2132

And he has been a raver for a while but I can't rave yet. He tells me that I shouldn't make kandi If I don't rave and that I shouldn't say PLUR because I don't know what it's about if I don't rave. Constantly he will break some of the bracelets on my arms singles, doubles, even a cuff once , if I hang out with him and i am wearing any. Yet I make pretty good quality kandi and he is always asking me to make him some. I don't know what to do because he has broken some of my favorite pieces but he is one of my really good friends

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Salamandy25
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Oct 30, 2012 1:01 pm

He's not being a good friend. He's also not going by PLUR. He isn't a good friend. HE BROKE YOUR KANDI! If any of my friends would do that to my stuff I would slap them. (Only if it was on purpose.) I'm sorry that's happening.

Kittygoesrawr
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Oct 26, 2012 5:34 am

Tell him to STFU

GraverNite
Member

Oct 22, 2012 1:56 pm

My thought is that's not a good friend if he does that and he, HIMSELF is not following PLUR. Letting you make it for him, but not for yourself to wear is very greedy of him. Again, a good friend wouldn't be like that and would support you in what you like to wear and do.

MrKANDIKID
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Oct 22, 2012 1:42 am

Oh hell no! If any of my friends broke anything of mine on purpose, kandi or not, I would kick their ass, then stop calling them a friend, and of course making them anything would be out of the picture as they would also be out of my life

HasukiChan
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Oct 21, 2012 8:26 pm

This happens to me too with my raver friends. I had to stop being friends with them because of it. I suggest telling him how it makes you feel, and if he is a true friend he will stop. He really doesn't understand PLUR if he does this, maybe you should tell him what it means because form what I see you know more about it than he does.

OfMiceAndDestiny
Member

Oct 21, 2012 7:26 pm

Let me start by saying reading this made me angry and heartbroken. I'm sorry he did that but it sounds like HE is the one who doesn't know the meaning of PLUR. You need to tell him straight up "You're a really great friend and I don't want to lose you. But when you break my Kandi and tell me I can't wear it It makes me feel like I can't be myself around you and that's not what friendship is about." To me he sounds more of a bully than a friend.

white_rabbit_alice
Member

Oct 21, 2012 3:58 pm

your choice but if he were my friend i would have said take me as a friend and respect my situation/life choices or go F yourself although if he broke my kandi well hmmmm i'm not gonna go there

sadmaachine
Member

Oct 21, 2012 2:23 pm

People do the same to me. They say that I can't make kandi and say PLURR if I don't go to raves. I never said I didn't WANT to go to a rave, I just said I haven't yet. I usually ignore those people because they aren't my friends in the first place. If it's your friend saying this, you should set him straight. He's not respecting you if he's acting like that. So you can set him straight and tell him that it's your choice, or you can find a better friend. It's your choice, but that would certainly annoy me if I had a friend always breaking my kandi. Good luck, and feel free to message me if you ever need to vent!

ninjalove134
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Oct 21, 2012 12:32 pm

if he is doing this then he is not following PLUR so maybe he should go look it up! I dont rave either not because i dont want to but because my parents wont let me. I think that just as long as you trade you can still call it kandi! it sounds to me that he is a complete A hole! that really makes me mad hearing that he breaks your kandi!

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