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Ugh that is so horrible, I am sorry guys, I normally see and delete spam immediately but haven't been on for a month, I have been busy (for me) and unwell and then out of town (had a horrible time when out of town), I have just deleted the threads and am going to install something to stop it happening again. There is not an easy way for me to assign moderator roles currently + don't have energy to explain how to do it but will see what I can do. The other problem is that whenever I get new moderators, they only moderate for a very short time and then leave :/

It's good to hear from you Crumpet! If there is a time that you are able to set up some moderators, Turbo Beads seems to be on all the time, and I plan on being on the site as often as possible, so I think we would both be willing to be moderators if you decide to add some. If there's ever anything I can do to help out, please let me know.

@TurboBeads: Eek sorry, sounds like I may have over-restricted the security settings somehow, I'm checking into what's happened and will fix it right now.

[edit] it should be fixed now, but let me know.

Something I don't think I've ever said before, about why I keep not coming on this site... is that coming on here fills me with a huge amount of bad feelings, not sure which ones (thanks alexithymia) but I think it's something like sadness and anger. because I stopped working on this site to put everything I had into my last job, and then my last job abused me and kicked me to the side. so when I come on here now, it reminds me of how I gave up this site - which I loved - and ended up getting nothing but pain in return, and it's very upsetting. But I am trying to come on here in small doses to get over my fear of it so that I can hopefully begin working on it/improving it again. But this is why I still don't come on here very often, even though I'm not at my "worst point" anymore.... because it hurts to come on here and be reminded of how I left it.