I cant find people to trade/make kandi with ;_;

Laurel 9/26/2015 03:19 pm 4584

so I have been making kandi for a little over a year, and it's been hard for me to find people to trade or make kandi with. I started my first year of high school, and I have probably seen one or 2 people with what looks like kandi, but I think i might have social anxiety, because it's so hard for me to approach and ask them... so should I just wear my kandi around and see if other people can find me? Or do I try and teach some friends how to? Or should I wait till I get out of high school? ANY suggestions?

(If you do answer, I really do appreciate it, thank you so much.)

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liveloveplur
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Sep 26, 2015 4:01 pm

I'm also pretty socially anxious (and just started my first year at HS too!) and I think that you should try wearing your kandi out. I have, and a few people have complemented me and chatted about kandi with me, so that might work. Also, maybe try finding some people to trade online with.

I hope I helped

Laurel
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Sep 26, 2015 4:10 pm

@liveloveplur: thank you hopefully it works out

bcc
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Sep 26, 2015 5:33 pm

i have social anxiety also. there are not a lot of kandi kids where i live. so, if someone asks about them, i show them the plur handshake and give them a piece. i don't usually ask to trade if i do see someone wearing kandi. nerves i guess. but it does help me meet people. plus i just like to give it away. i have left some pieces randomly around my city. hopefully someone enjoys them.

BrittanyHugsYew
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Sep 26, 2015 6:32 pm

Plur packages! Look for kandi pages on fb lots of people willing to trade there

DayStar
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Sep 26, 2015 10:40 pm

Wear your kandi out! maybe some one will approach you also try teaching you friends! I pretty much turned all my friends onto kandi making.
Doing online trades is a great idea too kandi land trades page on facebook is great for that.
Good luck!

Meow
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Sep 27, 2015 6:12 am

honesty, social anxiety is really hard and I know how it feels. If u can't approach them (which is totally ok) just wear your kandi around school. Let someone approach u. Maybe the people that u have never seen wear it have made some but don't want to wear for fear of what people will think, or they have the same problem as u. Hope that helped! Also just ask people on forum if u want to do Plur packages if u have a p.o. box.

Laurel
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Sep 27, 2015 1:33 pm

@Purple_Kandi_Rainbow thank you so much! The p.o. box is also a lovely idea, but my parents are extremely over protective and I highly doubt they would let me trade with people I don't even know irl but thank you