relationships (kinda vent?)

aqueerius 11/30/2021 06:58 pm 463

TW: mentions of s3xu4l encounters

so like why does every dude i meet just want s3x

like seriously, I just wanna be loved. but I can't say no, so I just like....go with it. and I don't know how to get them to stop? like I wanna be loved so so bad but I just don't want the dude I'm dating rn to hate me.

i just want him to love me, but I don't know how to make him do that if I refuse him any sexual contact

someone pls pls pls help!!!

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timaeusTestified
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Dec 1, 2021 10:15 am

Communication is key! If he gets mad/upset about it then break up with him. If your bf loves you he'll respect the fact that you just wanna be loved :3! If you need anymore help feel free to message us!

-Makoto

circusclowns
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Dec 1, 2021 9:46 am

it is SO important to set boundaries with your partner, communication is key. i've always had trouble setting boundaries with my partners in the past because of my codependency and our relationships crashed and burned because of it. you need to be firm and tell him it makes you uncomfortable, and if he loves you then he'll respect that.