coming out (advice wanted)

Alexander_The_3th 11/29/2021 10:39 am 294

So uh I don't think I can deal with being misgendered anymore. I've tried subtly hinting but it's not working. if anyone has any advice i'd be greatful.

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Nov 29, 2021 11:37 am

try writing a note!

-Nene

Nov 29, 2021 10:57 am

build a group that you could fall back on, things could go wrong so build a support group that you could talk to when needed, espeacilly if your your coming out to you parents

Nov 29, 2021 10:55 am

@AlexRegretsTheSoda: in that case, you should start with one teacher, one that you really trust, and slowly come out to your other teachers. and then if you want other people to find out subtly, try to get called on as much as possible so that if your teachers expand on your ideas they can use your pronouns, or call on u by ur real name (nd by that i mean alex, i figure i should clarify that bc so many ppl say a trans persons 'real name' is their deadname-)

Nov 29, 2021 10:49 am

@urloverboy: I wanna come out at school (its pretty obvious but i get misgendered tons)

Nov 29, 2021 10:48 am

well it depends on who you're coming out to, and whether or not they would support you

Nov 29, 2021 10:42 am

Depending on the type of person you are writing a letter, or just telling people irl seem to be the best options