help idk what to do abt something ???/??

pawbean 11/4/2021 06:43 am 336

so one of my friends keeps making me feel super super awful n its affecting my mental health but if i tell him he'll tell his bf (my other friend) n then my other friend will get mad at me????? help idk what to do (/nbh btw)

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Nov 4, 2021 1:23 pm

I know how it feels to be treated like poop by "friends". These people are not true friends and you really need to let them go if they are hurting you like this. That is not how friendships are supposed to be. I know it really hurts but i can assure you that there are more friendships waiting to be made with people who will treat you better.

Nov 4, 2021 10:13 am

i say u confront ur friend about it and assess the reason he makes u feel awful, cuz if they physically drain u to be around are they even worth being friends w yk? idk how to help abt ur other friends being mad at u but imo if they get mad at u for expressing ur emotions i say u should maybe find better friends? that could be just me tho

Nov 4, 2021 8:04 am

drop them, and tell your parents (and maybe even their parents) about what's going on. if they're hurting you, you don't need them. best of luck! rainbowsmile

  • rotten_meat
Nov 4, 2021 7:52 am

@catboytendencies: why would your parents get mad at you for not liking another human being??? It's not like dropping a friend will affect their relationship with the other family??? even if it does you have to look at for YOU. You have to care of yourself and you need to do what's best for you. So what if your parents have a hissy fit, they're adults. they can figure it out on their own like they have been doing since they were 18. It's not your job to harbor and baby your parent's feelings, you'll find a new friend group anyways. One that isn't emotionally abusing you man.

Nov 4, 2021 7:43 am

you need new friends who don't make you feel this bad. if you can't talk to them about issues like this, they do not have your back and are not your friends. if breaking up with them isn't an option, maybe just slowly distancing yourself would be best

Nov 4, 2021 7:14 am

@kipippy: i would but one of them is my irl friend and our parents would get mad sad

  • kipippy
Nov 4, 2021 6:52 am

drop them boththumbsup